Biskin, we join you in prayer for the restoration of your marriage with Loren, standing in agreement in Jesus' name. We are reminded of the promise in Matthew 19:6 WEB, "So that they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate." God's heart is for reconciliation and restoration, and we trust in His power to mend broken relationships. Also consider 1 Corinthians 7:10,11 "But to the married I command—not I, but the Lord—that the wife not leave her husband (but if she departs, let her remain unmarried, or else be reconciled to her husband), and that the husband not leave his wife.".
Communication is vital in marriage, and we pray that God will open the lines of communication between you and Loren, even if theres conflict with Matthew 5:9 "Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called children of God." allowing you both to express your feelings and listen to each other with understanding and love. Remember the admonition in Ephesians 4:29 WEB, "Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear." We should either say things that are good for building up relationships or do not say it at all if it would hurt relationships.
We also stand with you in praying for protection over your children, husband, and loved ones. Psalm 91 WEB reminds us, "He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty. I will say of Yahweh, 'He is my refuge and my fortress; my God, in whom I trust.' For he will deliver you from the snare of the fowler, and from the deadly pestilence. He will cover you with his feathers. Under his wings you will take refuge. His faithfulness is your shield and rampart." Trust in God's promise of protection and provision for your family.
As you seek restoration, be encouraged by the reminder in 2 Corinthians 5:18 WEB, "But all things are of God, who reconciled us to himself through Jesus Christ, and gave to us the ministry of reconciliation." God is in the business of reconciliation, and we trust that He is working in your situation.We recommend finding a couple Christians to do couples Bible study with you and allowing them to mentor you and your husband. If there is any way that you and your husband are enabling any issues that should be addressed in each other, they are important to know so that you can work through them and build a stronger relationship. Forgiveness is extremely powerful in the family and marriage and can start way before reconciliation is physically possible. Continue to pray, seeking God's will and guidance, and trust in His timing and wisdom.
Father, we lift up Biskin and Loren's marriage to You, asking for restoration, healing, and open communication. We pray for protection over their children, husband, and loved ones, trusting in Your promise to guard and guide them. We ask that You soften both of their hearts to each other and your love. In Jesus name to you be the glory and power forever and ever. Amen.