Marriage restoration

[Ithlesea]

Please dear brothers and sisters, pray for the salvation of my beautiful sweet Chinese wife. In 2 days (November 13, 2024), we will be married for 2 years. I did not lead her to Christ, I begain to idolize her a few months into our marriage. I failed her in many ways, and a rift begain between us. This past February we seperated in July. I've been home almost 4 months. Tao sleeps in our spare bedroom, she barely communicates with me. Please pray God will open her eyes, pray that I will have to strength to be a Godly husband. I fall daily. Thank you, in Jesus name. Toby

 

[Articles]

We are grateful for your heartfelt request, Toby, and we stand with you in prayer and counsel. We commend you for seeking God's intervention in your marriage and for acknowledging the importance of spiritual leadership in your union.

As the Apostle Paul encourages us in Ephesians 5:25, "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself up for it." Your role as a husband is to reflect the love of Christ to your wife, Tao. This love is patient, kind, and selfless, as described in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7.

Firstly, let us address the idolatry that you mentioned. It is important to remember that we should not worship or idolize anyone or anything above God. As it is written in Exodus 20:3, "You shall have no other gods before me." We urge you to repent from this and realign your priorities, ensuring that God is first in your life and marriage.

We also want to address the separation and communication breakdown in your marriage. As it is written in Malachi 2:16, "For the LORD, the God of Israel, says that he hates divorce; for one covers violence with his garment," says the LORD of hosts. Therefore take heed to your spirit, that you do not deal treacherously. We pray that God will open the doors of communication between you and Tao, and that He will restore your marriage according to His will.

Let us pray together:

"Father, in the name of Jesus Christ, we come before You lifting up Toby and Tao's marriage. Lord, we ask that You open Tao's eyes to the truth of the Gospel, that she may experience the saving grace of Jesus Christ. We pray that You strengthen Toby to be the godly husband You have called him to be. Help him to love Tao as Christ loves the church, and grant him the grace to overcome his daily struggles. Lord, we rebuke the spirit of divorce and prayerfully claim restoration and healing for their marriage. We ask this in Jesus' name. Amen."

Continue to trust in the Lord, Toby, and remember that He is faithful to His promises. As it is written in Isaiah 41:10, "Do not be afraid, for I am with you. Do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness." Keep praying, keep believing, and keep seeking God's will for your marriage.

 

[Brother James]

Please dear brothers and sisters, pray for the salvation of my beautiful sweet Chinese wife. In 2 days (November 13, 2024), we will be married for 2 years. I did not lead her to Christ, I begain to idolize her a few months into our marriage. I failed her in many ways, and a rift begain between us. This past February we seperated in July. I've been home almost 4 months. Tao sleeps in our spare bedroom, she barely communicates with me. Please pray God will open her eyes, pray that I will have to strength to be a Godly husband. I fall daily. Thank you, in Jesus name. Toby

Praying for you and your wife in Jesus.

Do you Believe Jesus died for our sins, is Risen from the dead, is Preparing a place for us and is about to call us to join Him?

Are you watching for Jesus in the Clouds of Glory? Jesus is about to call us to join Him!

We can do everything Jesus did and more! We can speak; sickness leave in Jesus! Be healed by Jesus stripes! I am healed by Jesus stripes! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!

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There is nothing that happens for us that is bad. All things work for our good in Jesus! Look at everything as good!

Sing through out your days Thank You Jesus, Praise You Jesus, Glory to You Lord Jesus or anything that is on your heart to sing to Jesus! It doesn't matter how we sound, Angels will join in with us and Jesus will join in with us as well as fight for us, knock down walls for us, open locks for us, save people for us, evil will flee from us, He heals us and He will over flow His Holy Peace in us.

Praying for others on here and reading your Bible will help you tremendously.

I wanted to commit suicide once, I even came up with a plan. Right before I headed out the door I posted a prayer on here and hoping there might be help from God one last time I opened the Bible and only read take no thought for your life. I read that before at least 100 times but never really could understand how. This time I took it to heart, all right God I will end my life by not thinking about it. I take no thought, I take no thought, I take no thought over and over and over again I take no thought was my only thought that day. All of a sudden I noticed something, Jesus showed up, all my pains were gone, no neck ache, no back pain, no leg pain from many many accidents I had over the years and no pain in my heart as my wife had left me. I started singing praises and thanks to Jesus and my life has never been the same. It is our obedience to God from His Holy Instructions that makes a difference to His Power of His Promises in our lives.

Be a doer of Jesus friend, it really makes a difference! Thank You Lord Jesus!

Search the Bible for Jesus' Promises friend, do them and claim them in Jesus! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!

Powerful healing promise hidden in Proverbs 3:7-8, I am not wise in my own eyes, I fear You Lord, I depart from evil, especially my own evil thoughts and my flesh is healed and my body is refreshed in Jesus.

Praying for others especially in your situation will help you tremendously in yours friend.

Take no thought for your life dear friend and Jesus will take thought for you. Sing praises and thanks to Jesus and He will overflow His Holy Spirit in you and so much more. He will fight for you and give you the desires of your heart.

Pray this prayer look up the verses and pray it again with your friends and family and let's mount up with wings as eagles and soar. Soar with me.

Let Us Pray: God I ask in Jesus' name, bless me to grow closer to You. I long for a more intimate relationship with You. God I take You at Your Word, if I will draw closer to You, You will draw closer to me (James 4:8). Show me how to draw closer to You. Bless me daily to cast off and forsake my thoughts and ways for my life, and exchange them for Your thoughts and ways for my life. Let me think Your thoughts and dream Your dreams for my life. God bless me to live and walk in Your love, mercy and forgiveness (Isaiah 55:7). I confess, I will take no thought for my life. I will trust You Father God to take thought for me and take care of me (Mathew 6:25-34). I will not be wise in my own eyes, I will fear You Lord and depart from evil and my flesh will be healed and my body will be refreshed (Proverbs 3:7-8) daily. Thank You Jesus for Your Promises! Lord make me the Child of God You need me to be in Christ for all those around me and for the world to see (Psalms 128:3). Not by my might, nor by my power, but by Your Spirt Christ Jesus (Zechariah 4:6) this shall happen. And it will happen, it is happening now in Your timing, Power, Strength, Might, and Spirit, Christ Jesus. God all that I have asked of you in this prayer please do the same for all those I love, care about, and every faithful prayer warrior on this site. Thank You, Thank You, Thank You Lord Jesus, my Savior and Lord for answering this prayer with a Yes and Amen.

Bless us to sing praises and thanks to You Lord Jesus so You can fill us with the wine of the Spirit in Jesus Name, Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We've been thinking about you and Tao, Toby. It's clear that you've got a heavy heart, but we want you to know that we're right there with you, lifting your marriage up to the Lord. We've been asking Him to soften Tao's heart, to open her eyes to the truth of the Gospel, and to bring her into a saving relationship with Jesus. We've also been praying for you, Toby. We know it's tough, but we're asking God to give you the strength and wisdom to be the husband He's called you to be. We're claiming His promise in Philippians 4:13, "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." Keep trusting in Him, Toby. He sees you, He hears you, and He's working in your marriage.

 

[Brother James]

Please dear brothers and sisters, pray for the salvation of my beautiful sweet Chinese wife. In 2 days (November 13, 2024), we will be married for 2 years. I did not lead her to Christ, I begain to idolize her a few months into our marriage. I failed her in many ways, and a rift begain between us. This past February we seperated in July. I've been home almost 4 months. Tao sleeps in our spare bedroom, she barely communicates with me. Please pray God will open her eyes, pray that I will have to strength to be a Godly husband. I fall daily. Thank you, in Jesus name. Toby

I can assure you that Jesus is very real! Hell is very real (Lake of Lava)! Sometimes if we really want something from Jesus then we need to read and study about how to get Him to take care of that. Sometimes we think we have prayed enough but maybe we just haven’t prayed the right way.

Read the book of Hosea in the Bible KJV for promises from God/Jesus for our marriages and our families. This brought my wife back to me more than once...

Pray this for yourself....

In Jesus put a hedge around my marriage, around my wife, turn away other lovers, restore us unto You and restore us unto each other in Jesus! All for Your Glory Lord Jesus! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!

We should always love and forgive especially our spouses as if it is ourselves standing before Jesus. This brought my wife back to me a few times in such a way that she actually still thinks I was the one that sabotaged her but I know differently.

 

[Ithlesea]

Thank you so, so much!
Amen!
Toby

 

[justinvd]

I have prayed for you in Jesus name

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[Sanjoy Mudoi]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.