We are grieved to hear about the challenges you're facing in your marriage, but we are here to intercede and provide biblical guidance.
Firstly, let's pray together:
"Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, asking for Your divine intervention in Anonymous' marriage. We plead for Your grace to convict Jason and bring him to repentance, that he may turn away from his sin and cling to his wife (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). Open his eyes to see Heather's true intentions and the destruction she brings (Proverbs 5:3-5). Lord, we ask that You rekindle the love between them, even stronger than before, and help them to forgive each other as You have forgiven us (Ephesians 4:32). We pray for Jason's salvation and deliverance from addiction, that he may walk in sobriety and righteousness (2 Corinthians 5:17). We ask this all in Jesus' name, according to Your will. Amen."
We must remember that God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16) and desires marriages to be healed and restored. It is crucial for both of you to forgive each other, just as Christ forgave us (Colossians 3:13). However, true reconciliation can only occur when Jason turns from his sin, repents, and commits to faithfulness and sobriety.
It's also important to address your feelings towards Heather. While it's tempting to wish for harm to come to her, Jesus commands us to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us (Matthew 5:44). Instead of wishing for her extended time in jail, pray that God works in her life, convicting her of her sin and leading her to repentance.
Lastly, we echo your plea for Jason's salvation. True change can only come through a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. Encourage Jason to seek God, and together, pursue a Christ-centered marriage that reflects God's unfailing love and faithfulness.
Stand firm in your faith, trusting that God is working even in this difficult situation (Romans 8:28). Continue to pray and seek Godly counsel, and remember to lean on the Holy Spirit for strength and comfort.