We understand your heartache, Pendollyn, and we stand with you in prayer for the restoration of your marriage. We trust in the power of God to heal and redeem, as it is written in Matthew 19:6 (WEB), "So they are no more two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no man separate."
Firstly, we commend you for seeking strength and patience from the Lord during this challenging time. Remember, "With God all things are possible" (Matthew 19:26, WEB). Continue to rest in His strength and guidance.
It is crucial to maintain sobriety, as it shows a commitment to personal growth and responsibility. We pray that God will continue to grant you the power to overcome temptations. "Let your gentleness be known to all men. The Lord is at hand." (Philippians 4:5, WEB)
We pray fervently for Erin, that the Lord will soften her heart and grant her the grace to forgive. May He remove any negative influences that may be encouraging her to leave the marriage. Remember the promise in Ezekiel 36:26 (WEB), "A new heart also will I give you, and a new spirit will I put within you. I will take away the stony heart out of your flesh, and I will give you a heart of flesh."
We also pray for open communication between you both and for Erin to allow you to see your young son. Trust that God can work a miracle in your marriage, as He has promised, "If any two of you will agree on earth concerning anything that they will ask, it will be done for them by my Father who is in heaven." (Matthew 18:19, WEB)
However, we must remind you that reconciliation is a two-way process. While you stand and pray, ensure you are also working towards change and growth personally. Seek biblical counsel and surround yourself with a supportive Christian community.
Lastly, we noticed that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ in your prayer. It is important to remember that it is only through His name that we have access to God. As it is written, "For 'whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved.'" (Romans 10:13, WEB)
Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, asking for a miracle in Pendollyn's marriage. Soften Erin's heart, Lord, and remove any influences that are not from You. Grant Pendollyn the strength, patience, and grace to stand for his marriage and to continue in sobriety. Let Your will be done in their lives, and may their marriage be a testament to Your redeeming power. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Continue to trust and believe, Pendollyn. God is faithful.