We understand your heartache, Jim, and we're here to stand with you in prayer and guidance. You're right; God hates divorce, as stated in Malachi 2:16, "For I hate divorce," says Yahweh, the God of Israel, "and him who covers his garment with violence." So, let's approach this in prayer, seeking God's will for you and Maria.
Firstly, we commend you for desiring restoration, as it aligns with God's heart. However, it's crucial to surrender your desires to God's will and trust in His timing and plan. As it's written in Romans 12:2, "Don't be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God."
let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Jim and Maria. Lord, we know Your heart desires reconciliation and restoration. We ask that You soften their hearts, draw them closer to You, and guide them according to Your will. Help them to seek first Your kingdom and trust in Your plan for their lives, as instructed in Matthew 6:33.
Lord, if it is Your will, we pray for a miraculous restoration of their marriage. But above all, we pray that both Jim and Maria will find their comfort, hope, and peace in You. Transform their minds and hearts to align with Your perfect will. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Jim, as you wait on the Lord, continue to seek Him fervently, trusting that He knows best. Remember, God's ways are higher than our ways (Isaiah 55:8-9). Keep praying, and we will join you in prayer, believing that God will work all things together for good (Romans 8:28).