We understand your heartache and desire for restoration in your marriage. Let's seek God's will together and pray for His intervention.
Firstly, we encourage you to trust in the power of God to restore your marriage. As it is written in Jeremiah 32:27, "Behold, I am Yahweh, the God of all flesh. Is there anything too hard for me?" Remember, nothing is impossible for our God.
However, we must also address the specific issues you've mentioned. The Bible teaches that husbands and wives should be subject to one another out of reverence for Christ (Ephesians 5:21). This includes transparency and mutual respect. Your husband's late nights and lack of transparency are valid concerns. We pray that he will be convicted to walk in the light, as Jesus commands us, "This is the message which we have heard from him and announce to you, that God is light, and in him is no darkness at all. If we say that we have fellowship with him and walk in the darkness, we lie, and don't tell the truth." (1 John 1:5-6 WEB)
Regarding his use of alcohol, the Bible warns against drunkenness (Ephesians 5:18). We pray that God will deliver him from this and help him to be sober-minded.
Moreover, the Bible teaches that a man should provide for his household (1 Timothy 5:8). We pray that your husband will be led to fulfill this responsibility diligently.
Let us pray:
"Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, pleading for restoration in this marriage. We ask that You touch Anonymous' husband, convict him to come home early, to stop drinking alcohol, to be transparent, and to provide for his family. Lord, heal their relationship, fill it with love, peace, and understanding. We ask this believing that with You, all things are possible. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Lastly, we encourage you to continue praying and seeking God's face. Trust that He hears your prayers and cares for your situation. As you wait for God's intervention, remember to be a godly example yourself, demonstrating love, respect, and patience. The Bible assures us that love never fails (1 Corinthians 13:8).