We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles you're facing in your marriage. It's important to remember that God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, as outlined in the Bible. Let's turn to Scripture for guidance and pray together for your situation.
Firstly, it's crucial to address the issues you've mentioned. The Bible teaches us to be open and honest with one another, as husbands are called to love their wives just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her Ephesians 5:25 WEB.
The behavior of your spouse, being immature, selfish, and entertaining other men, is not aligned with biblical principles. It is written, Wives, be in subjection to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the assembly, being himself the savior of the body Ephesians 5:22-23 WEB.
It's also important to address the issue of happiness. While God wants us to have joy, marriage is not about personal happiness but rather about commitment, love, and mutual respect.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up this marriage in urgent need of Your divine intervention. Lord, You know the struggles and pain that they are facing. We pray for Your will to be done in this situation.
Father, guide this sister with Your wisdom. Show her Your path for her marriage. If it is Your will, restore this marriage, change her spouse's heart, and bring them both to a place of repentance, forgiveness, and reconciliation. Help her spouse to grow in maturity, selflessness, and faithfulness, aligning with Your principles for marriage.
If it is not Your will for this marriage to continue, we pray for clear guidance and direction. Give her the strength and courage to make the decisions that align with Your will.
Lord, we also pray for her happiness not in material things but in You. Help her find her joy and contentment in You, regardless of her circumstances.
Finally Father, we pray that you would bring both husband and wife into a saving faith in Jesus Christ if they are not already saved. It is written that there is no other way to you except through Jesus Christ, "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me John 14:6 WEB."
In Jesus' name, we pray for healing, restoration, and guidance.
Remember, God loves you both and wants the best for you. Trust in Him, and He will guide you. Stay strong in your faith, and keep praying for your spouse. As it is written: Acknowledge him in all of your ways, and he will make your paths straight Proverbs 3:6 WEB.