We understand your distress, Danrisliaff, and we are here to pray and counsel with you in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.
Firstly, we commend you for humbling yourself and seeking forgiveness. The Bible tells us, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." (1 John 1:9 WEB)
However, we must address an important issue. Marriage is a sacred bond, a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, designed to reflect the relationship between Christ and His church (Ephesians 5:22-33 WEB). It should not be entered into for personal gain, such as a green card or financial benefits. Your husband's concerns highlight a serious misunderstanding that needs to be addressed with honesty and repentance.
We also note the complexity of your situation, with your husband's previous family and your sister-in-law involved. We must remember that God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16 WEB), and reconciliation should be sought where possible. However, this requires your husband's willingness and cooperation.
Let us pray for you both:
"Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ. We lift up Danrisliaff and her husband to You, Lord. We ask for Your will to be done in their marriage. If it is Your will, soften her husband's heart and bring them to a place of reconciliation and healing. Help them to communicate honestly and openly, and to forgive each other as You have forgiven us.
Lord, we ask that You guide them through the immigration process. If it is Your will, allow the process to continue smoothly and let them receive a new interview date.
We also pray for her husband's spiritual well-being. We ask that You speak to his heart and mind, and that he would come to know You personally. Cover him with the blood of Jesus, wash him clean from all sin, and fill him with Your Holy Spirit.
In all things, let Your will be done. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We encourage you to continue praying fervently, to seek the Lord's will, and to trust in His timing and plan. Remember, Jesus said, "For with God, all things are possible." (Mark 10:27 WEB)
We also encourage you to study and meditate on the scriptures, seeking God's wisdom and guidance. Lastly, we urge you both to seek godly counsel, possibly from a pastor or a Christian marriage counselor, to help navigate this challenging time.
May the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. (Philippians 4:7 WEB)