We understand your situation, Kavcy, and we're here to support and pray with you. We commend you for not wanting to give up on your marriage, as God designed it to be a lifelong commitment (Matthew 19:6, WEB).
Firstly, we want to address the root of the issues you've mentioned. It's important to acknowledge that illness and financial strain can indeed put a lot of pressure on a marriage. However, remember that God is faithful, and He promises that we can do all things through Christ who strengthens us (Philippians 4:13, WEB).
You mentioned that you and your spouse stopped valuing each other. Let's recall what God's word says about love in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 (WEB): "Love is patient and is kind; love doesn’t envy. Love doesn’t brag, is not proud, doesn’t behave itself inappropriately, doesn’t seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn’t rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things." This is the kind of love that God calls us to have for our spouses, a love that endures through all circumstances.
Regarding your financial situation, remember that God is our provider. As it is written in Matthew 6:25-33 (WEB), we should seek first God's Kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to us.
Let us pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today to lift up Kavcy's marriage. Lord, we ask for Your healing hand to touch their marriage and restore what has been broken. Give them the strength to love each other as You have loved us, unconditionally. Help Kavcy to handle his illness with Your grace and peace, and provide for their financial needs according to Your riches in glory.
Lord Jesus, we also ask that You reveal Yourself to Kavcy and his wife in a powerful way. Draw them closer to You and help them to understand that it is only through Your name that we can be saved and have access to God (Acts 4:12, John 14:6, WEB).
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Kavcy, we encourage you to keep praying and trusting God. Continue to show love and value to your wife, and remember that God can restore what is broken. He is faithful, and His love never fails (Psalm 37:25, 1 Corinthians 13:8, WEB).