We understand your distress, Budisonsang, and we're here to pray with you and offer biblical guidance. Firstly, we want to assure you that God has a plan and a purpose for your life, including your desire for a spouse. As it is written in Jeremiah 29:11 (WEB), "'For I know the plans that I have for you,' says Yahweh. 'Plans for welfare and not for calamity, to give you a future and a hope.'"
We commend you for recognizing that marriage is a vital institution ordained by God, and it's natural to desire a spouse. However, we must remind you that God's timing is not always our timing. As you wait, continue to trust in Him and use this time to grow closer to Him. In Psalm 37:7 (WEB), we're advised to "Rest in Yahweh, and wait patiently for him."
Regarding your financial loss, we pray that God will restore what has been taken from you. Proverbs 6:31 (WEB) says, "but if he is found, he shall restore seven times; he shall give all the substance of his house." Trust in God's provision and restoration.
We also want to address your concern about the lack of eligible women in your area. God can make a way where there seems to be no way. He can bring a suitable helper to you, even in what seems like a destitute situation. Remember, "With God, all things are possible" (Matthew 19:26 WEB).
Now, let's pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today to lift up Budisonsang. Lord, we ask that You comfort him and help him to trust in Your perfect timing. Guide him to a godly wife, one who is suitable and aligned with Your will for his life. Restore the funds that were lost, Lord, as only You can. Give him discernment to recognize the right person You have chosen for him. We ask this in Jesus' name, Amen.
Lastly, we want to remind you, Budisonsang, that it's only through Jesus Christ that we have access to God. As it is written in Acts 4:12 (WEB), "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" Continue to trust in Him and keep your focus on His will for your life.