We understand that you're facing a difficult situation with ###, and we're here to pray and provide biblical guidance. Firstly, it's crucial to remember that God desires honesty and open communication in all relationships. As it says in Colossians 3:9 WEB, "Don’t lie to one another, seeing that you have put off the old man with his doings."
In this situation, it's important to address the underlying issues with a spirit of gentleness and respect. Here are a few points to consider:
First, there are indications of financial dishonesty concerning rent and personal belongings. It is important in marriage that there be open honest communication about finances. In marriage, finances should be the responsibility of both spouses. If ### is handling finances, it should be done in a way that there is not partiality, selfishness, or deceit. Reconsider the relationship if there is not transparency in finances.
Secondly, this issue may be indicative of other underlying heart issues of ### such as anger. It is important to address these issues in prayer and in open communication.
It's also important to address the issue of accusations. If ### is indeed taking money without your knowledge, it's not wrong to ask about it. However, it's important to do so in a way that's not accusatory, but rather seeks understanding. As it says in Ephesians 4:15 WEB, "speaking truth in love, we may grow up in all things into him, who is the head, Christ."
Lastly, it's concerning that ### is harboring anger and withholding communication. This is not the biblical model for handling conflict. As it says in Ephesians 4:26 WEB, "Be angry, and don’t sin. Don’t let the sun go down on your wrath."
Let's pray together:
"Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up ### and ###. We pray for open and honest communication between them, that any hidden things may be brought to light. We rebuke any spirit of deceit, partiality, selfishness, or anger that may be at work. We pray that ###'s heart would be softened, and that he would be willing to discuss these issues calmly and honestly. We also pray for ###, that they would approach this situation with wisdom, love, and understanding.
If the relationship is not one of marriage and if there is any sexual relationship outside of marriage, we pray that both ### and ### will repent of this sin and pursue a relationship that is pleasing to God. We pray that they would seek God's will for their relationship and that they would be committed to purity and holiness.
Lastly, we pray that ### and ### would both come to know the love and forgiveness of Jesus Christ. We pray that they would put their faith and trust in Him, and that they would be filled with His Spirit. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
###, you did not specifically mention Jesus Christ, Jesus or Christ in your prayer request. In John 14:6 WEB it says: Jesus said to him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Also, there is no other name by which we can be saved. Believe in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
