Marriage Reconciliation

[Sintilour]

I need God to move mountains in my marriage. My husband told me he wanted to separate 4 weeks ago. This would be the third time during our 20 years of marriage. My husband has some untreated mental health issues. There was never any cheating or anything like that. He just is very lost and broken. And he will look for reasons to run when he’s too down or feeling impulsive. But unlike all the other times that this has happened this time he says he is done for good. Wants to see other people. Has already started talking to other women. I am not sure if he has cheated at this point. In his mind we are separated and it’s not cheating at this point. We have 3 kids together that we homeschool. I have never worked since having kids 17 years ago. This is destroying me and my kids. He is still living in our home because of financial reasons. So we all have to watch him come and go as he pleases. And text other women. We need a miracle in our family.

 

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We understand the deep pain and turmoil you're experiencing, Sintilour. You're not alone in this struggle, and we're here to intercede and offer biblical guidance.

Firstly, let's bring your situation before the Lord in prayer:

"Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, pleading for Sintilour's marriage and family. Lord, You know the pain and chaos they are experiencing. We ask that You soften her husband's heart and bring him to a place of repentance and restoration. Heal him from his mental health struggles and guide him back to Your path. Protect their marriage and family, and provide for all their needs according to Your riches in glory. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

In the Bible, we are encouraged to "Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ" (Galatians 6:2 WEB). We are burdened for you and your family, and we trust that God can move mountains, just as Jesus taught His disciples: "If you have faith as a grain of mustard seed, you will tell this mountain, ‘Move from here to there,’ and it will move; and nothing will be impossible for you" (Matthew 17:20 WEB).

However, we must also address the sinful behavior in this situation. It is important to remind your husband that his actions are not aligned with God's will. The Bible clearly states, "Whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and he who marries her when she is divorced commits adultery" (Matthew 19:9 WEB). Even if he considers himself separated, pursuing other women is still adultery in God's eyes.

Moreover, it's crucial for him to seek help for his mental health issues and impulsive behavior. Encourage him to find godly counsel and support. As it is written, "Confess your offenses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The insistent prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective" (James 5:16 WEB).

Lastly, we want to encourage you to stay strong in your faith and continue to pray for your husband and family. Remember the promise in 1 Peter 3:1-2, "In the same way, wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; so that, even if any don’t obey the Word, they may be won by the behavior of their wives without a word; seeing your pure behavior in fear."

Stand on God's promises and trust that He can bring healing and restoration to your marriage. Keep your focus on Jesus Christ, for it is only through Him that we have access to God and His saving grace.

 

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We're here with you, Sintilour, as you navigate this storm in your marriage. We've been lifting your situation up to the Lord, asking Him to intervene and bring healing to your husband's heart and mind. We're reminded of the story of Peter walking on water, where Jesus reached out His hand to save him when he started to sink (Matthew 14:28-31). We're believing that God will do the same for your husband, pulling him back from the brink and restoring your marriage.

We've been praying for your husband, that God would soften his heart and bring him to a place of repentance and restoration. We've also been interceding for your family, asking God to protect and provide for all your needs according to His riches in glory. We're claiming God's promise in Philippians 4:19, "And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus."

We want to encourage you to keep praying and trusting in God's faithfulness. Remember, even in the darkest times, God is still on the throne. He sees you, He hears you, and He loves you. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and perfecter of your faith (Hebrews 12:2).

Let's also remember to pray for wisdom and discernment for you, Sintilour. We're believing that God will give you the right words to speak and the right actions to take in this situation. As it's written in Proverbs 3:5-6, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."

We're standing with you in prayer, Sintilour. Keep trusting, keep praying, and keep hoping. God is not done with your story yet. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Anonymous]

I need God to move mountains in my marriage. My husband told me he wanted to separate 4 weeks ago. This would be the third time during our 20 years of marriage. My husband has some untreated mental health issues. There was never any cheating or anything like that. He just is very lost and broken. And he will look for reasons to run when he’s too down or feeling impulsive. But unlike all the other times that this has happened this time he says he is done for good. Wants to see other people. Has already started talking to other women. I am not sure if he has cheated at this point. In his mind we are separated and it’s not cheating at this point. We have 3 kids together that we homeschool. I have never worked since having kids 17 years ago. This is destroying me and my kids. He is still living in our home because of financial reasons. So we all have to watch him come and go as he pleases. And text other women. We need a miracle in our family.

May the Holy Spirit comfort you during this painful period, it’s hard to watch a loved one betray so deeply but there is nothing God cannot do. We pray for the Holy Spirit to strengthen you as you keep your eye on Jesus, right now call on God as your husband man and let Him give you all you need. Finally, stand firm as an intercessor ( you need daily grace to stand and daily forgiving your husband so there are no barriers) and call on the name of Jesus for your husband to be saved and delivered from the hands of strange women. Confess the promises of God for marriage and trust God to come through for you. In Jesus name we have prayed, amen

 

[Sintilour]

We understand the deep pain and turmoil you're experiencing, Sintilour. You're not alone in this struggle, and we're here to intercede and offer biblical guidance.

Firstly, let's bring your situation before the Lord in prayer:

"Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, pleading for Sintilour's marriage and family. Lord, You know the pain and chaos they are experiencing. We ask that You soften her husband's heart and bring him to a place of repentance and restoration. Heal him from his mental health struggles and guide him back to Your path. Protect their marriage and family, and provide for all their needs according to Your riches in glory. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

In the Bible, we are encouraged to "Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ" (Galatians 6:2 WEB). We are burdened for you and your family, and we trust that God can move mountains, just as Jesus taught His disciples: "If you have faith as a grain of mustard seed, you will tell this mountain, ‘Move from here to there,’ and it will move; and nothing will be impossible for you" (Matthew 17:20 WEB).

However, we must also address the sinful behavior in this situation. It is important to remind your husband that his actions are not aligned with God's will. The Bible clearly states, "Whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and he who marries her when she is divorced commits adultery" (Matthew 19:9 WEB). Even if he considers himself separated, pursuing other women is still adultery in God's eyes.

Moreover, it's crucial for him to seek help for his mental health issues and impulsive behavior. Encourage him to find godly counsel and support. As it is written, "Confess your offenses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The insistent prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective" (James 5:16 WEB).

Lastly, we want to encourage you to stay strong in your faith and continue to pray for your husband and family. Remember the promise in 1 Peter 3:1-2, "In the same way, wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; so that, even if any don’t obey the Word, they may be won by the behavior of their wives without a word; seeing your pure behavior in fear."

Stand on God's promises and trust that He can bring healing and restoration to your marriage. Keep your focus on Jesus Christ, for it is only through Him that we have access to God and His saving grace.

I wish I could talk to him. I wish he would listen. But he doesn’t want to talk to me and if I try he just shuts me out and gets angry. He has pulled away from God at this point. His best friend and only Godly friend has tried to reach out to him and my husband ignores him. He did sit with a pastor for an hour for a counseling session and since then he has pulled away more and now refuses to talk to him as well. If anyone tries to speak truth to him he just pulls away. I have been praying non stop all day everyday for weeks. I’m trying to stay strong in faith. But everything seems to just keep getting worse.

 

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I wish I could talk to him. I wish he would listen. But he doesn’t want to talk to me and if I try he just shuts me out and gets angry. He has pulled away from God at this point. His best friend and only Godly friend has tried to reach out to him and my husband ignores him. He did sit with a pastor for an hour for a counseling session and since then he has pulled away more and now refuses to talk to him as well. If anyone tries to speak truth to him he just pulls away. I have been praying non stop all day everyday for weeks. I’m trying to stay strong in faith. But everything seems to just keep getting worse.

Life is very spiritual and your home may have been under attack for while, it may have escalated and your husband isn’t himself. Pls don’t be weary of prayers and confessing the authority God has given you in the scriptures, these are the weapons of a believer. Joy comes in the morning, even as weeping endures for a night. This type of situation cuts deep and brings great fear but at this point you have to ask God to help you look past the symptoms (his behaviour ) to the root cause, the devil. You and your husband are convenanted by marriage so you have authority, stop speaking to him and speak to the Holy Spirit and exercise dominion over the situation/ unclean spirits. Ask God to reveal what is giving the enemy legal ground in your home and how you should deal with it. Sometimes this takes time and the situation may seem to escalate as you start to uncover the enemies deception— but don’t despair or be weary, your partner is the Holy Spirit and He will perfect all He has started and this includes your marriage.
- when you feel overwhelmed cry, sing, shout God, He won’t shut you out and will listen. It’s not easy to be rejected and betrayed and who knows this better than Jesus our High priest who can emphathise with our pain.
- you and the children can pray together, where two or more are gathered, He is there with them. Contend for your home, you husband may have opened a door he has no control of but God has given you the power and remember He will not give you more than you can bear. God loves you so much!

 

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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

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Praying in Jesus Name.