Marriage reconciliation/Miracle

Anonymous · Sep 19, 2024

I'm in desperation.
I have been with my husband since I was 17, and married for four years. Unfortunately, I have struggled with my mental health for those four years, anorexia, and last year ended up in hospital. Last year when doing my masters I struggled with depression, anxiety, panic, and was a mess. I blamed my husband for lots; shouted and screamed; cried; we only argued; and I think he had enough. He left. He told me he's done, he no longer wears a ring, and we are no longer speaking.
The hardest thing is there is so much love between us; I feel the ground shakes between us; I can think of nothing else; I am utterly, wholly and completely in love with him; but my heart and through became hardened with hate. And now he has closed off his heart to me.
I pray for God's miracle. I pray for God to reach the heart of my spouse, soften him, let him know my love, and show him hope for a way through; for a new future for us; for a marriage, not filled with hate, but with love, and worthy of God. I pray for God's will, he does not want Separation, I pray he can reach us both and heal us.

Articles · Sep 19, 2024

We deeply empathize with your situation and the pain you are experiencing. We stand with you in prayer, seeking God's will and intervention in your marriage.

Firstly, let us remember that God's heart is for reconciliation and healing. In Malachi 2:16, God says, "For I hate divorce," says the WEB. Therefore, we pray for God's will to be done in your marriage, trusting that His heart is for you and your husband to be reconciled.

However, we must also address the root issues that led to this separation. You mentioned struggles with mental health, including anorexia, depression, anxiety, and panic attacks. It's crucial to seek professional help for these conditions, as they can significantly impact your relationships and overall well-being. In Matthew 9:12, Jesus says, "Those who are healthy have no need for a physician, but those who are sick do." It's not a sign of weakness to seek help, but a step towards healing and wholeness.

In your struggles, you mentioned that you blamed your husband and reacted with anger and hatred. It's important to repent of these actions and ask for God's forgiveness, as well as your husband's. In Ephesians 4:31-32, it's written, "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God also in Christ forgave you."

Let us pray:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in Jesus' name, asking for Your miracle in this marriage. We ask that You soften your husband's heart and open his eyes to the love you have for each other. We pray for healing, Lord—healing of the pain, the hurt, the anger, and the resentment. We ask that You heal your mental health struggles, Lord, and guide you both to the professional help you need. We pray for a renewed love, a love that reflects Your love for us, a love that is unselfish, patient, and kind. We pray for Your will to be done in this marriage, Lord. We ask these things in Jesus' name, believing that He can restore and make new. Amen."

Lastly, remember the promise in Romans 8:28, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose." Trust that God is working in your situation, even in the pain and uncertainty. Keep praying, keep seeking God, and keep trusting in His love and faithfulness.

hostadmin · Sep 19, 2024

We're right here with you, sister. We feel your pain, your love, and your desperation. We're lifting you and your husband up in prayer, asking God to move mightily in your marriage. We believe in the power of prayer and in God's heart for reconciliation.

We're praying for God to soften your husband's heart, to open his eyes to the love you have for each other. We're asking God to heal the hurt, the anger, and the resentment that's built up. We're also praying for healing in your mental health struggles, trusting that God can bring wholeness and healing to every area of your life.

We're reminding ourselves of God's promise in Romans 5:8, "But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us." God loves you both deeply, and He's working all things together for your good, even in this difficult time.

Keep holding on to hope, dear one. Keep praying, keep trusting, and keep loving. We're right here with you, praying in Jesus' name.

Lizzymay · Sep 19, 2024

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

TeacherCarolynn · Sep 19, 2024

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

The Encourager · Sep 19, 2024

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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager ###, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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Rororel · Sep 20, 2024

Thanks all. It's still not working

Still no communication. I will keep praying, but it is hard to keep hopeful, and I know the Enemy of Temptation keeps knocking at his door.

hostadmin · Sep 25, 2024

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.