Marriage problems

[Seirsarvale]

My having an affair with another man...I love and trusted my wife for 8 years of our marriage and we have an 8-year-old son. I found out myself and am heartbroken. All I want is to forgive her and start all over. I prayed to talk things over with her, wanted to pray with her, but am always rejected. I need support and prayer to get my wife back.

 

[Articles]

We are truly heartbroken to hear about the infidelity that has occurred in your marriage. This is a clear violation of God's commands but with support and serious repentance we trust that it can be healed. In the words of the wise King Solomon, Breaking a vow one has made to God is no light matter and that is what this is. When you make a vow to God, do not be slow to pay it, for he takes no pleasure in fools. Pay what you vow! It is better that you should not vow than that you should vow and not pay. Do not let your mouth lead you into sin. Do not protest before the messenger that this was a mistake. Why should God be angry at your voice, and destroy the work of your hands? Ecclesiastes 5:4-6 WEB.

Firstly, we must address the seriousness of the sin that has been committed. Adultery is clearly condemned in the Bible. Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled; for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous. Hebrews 13:4 WEB. Additionally, we must recognize that forgiveness is essential, but it does not mean ignoring the sin or its consequences. True repentance is of paramount importance. In fact, it is a key to the heart of God.

We encourage you to continue praying for your wife, but it is crucial to understand that you cannot force her to change or reconcile if she is not willing. Pray for her heart to soften and for her to turn away from her sin. Pray for God to intervene in your marriage and bring healing and restoration. For the unbelieving husband is sanctified in the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified in the brother. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but now they are holy. 1 Corinthians 7:14 WEB.

It is also important to pray for yourself, that God would give you strength, wisdom, and patience as you navigate this difficult time. Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. Ephesians 6:11 WEB.

Remember, God hates divorce and we must honor that. For I hate divorce, says Yahweh, the God of Israel Malachi 2:16 WEB. However, we must also acknowledge the reality of the situation. If your wife continues to reject you and refuse to repent, you may need to consider the tough decisions ahead. Whoever puts away his wife, and marries another, commits adultery against her. Mark 10:11 WEB.

We also want to remind you that it is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God. And in no other is there salvation, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved! Acts 4:12 WEB. If you have not already, we encourage you to put your faith in Jesus Christ and make Him the Lord of your life.

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today, lifting up this broken marriage and this hurting heart. Lord, we pray for healing, restoration, and repentance. We pray that You would soften the heart of this man's wife and draw her back to You and to her marriage. We pray for strength, wisdom, and patience for this man as he navigates this difficult time. We pray that Your will would be done in this situation and that You would be glorified in the outcome. We ask this in Jesus' name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, brother. We understand the pain and heartache you're going through. It's like a storm has hit your marriage, and it's natural to feel overwhelmed. But remember, even the strongest storms eventually pass.

We want to encourage you to keep praying, keep seeking. Your wife needs to see your commitment, your patience, and your love. It's not about forcing her to change, but showing her the change in you - a change towards forgiveness, understanding, and unwavering love.

We're reminded of the parable of the persistent widow in Luke 18. She kept coming to the judge, and eventually, he granted her request. Similarly, keep coming before God, keep asking, keep seeking. He sees your tears, He hears your cries.

And remember, it's not just about your wife. It's about you too. You need healing, you need restoration. So, keep praying for yourself as well. Put on the full armor of God, as Ephesians 6 tells us. You're in a battle, but you're not alone. God is with you, and so are we.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, we come to You today, lifting up this marriage, this family. Lord, we pray for healing, for restoration, for a softening of hearts. We pray for strength, for wisdom, for patience. We pray that You would work in this situation, that You would be glorified in the outcome. We ask this in Jesus' name. Amen."

 

[marls]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Seirsarvale]

We're here with you, brother. We understand the pain and heartache you're going through. It's like a storm has hit your marriage, and it's natural to feel overwhelmed. But remember, even the strongest storms eventually pass.

We want to encourage you to keep praying, keep seeking. Your wife needs to see your commitment, your patience, and your love. It's not about forcing her to change, but showing her the change in you - a change towards forgiveness, understanding, and unwavering love.

We're reminded of the parable of the persistent widow in Luke 18. She kept coming to the judge, and eventually, he granted her request. Similarly, keep coming before God, keep asking, keep seeking. He sees your tears, He hears your cries.

And remember, it's not just about your wife. It's about you too. You need healing, you need restoration. So, keep praying for yourself as well. Put on the full armor of God, as Ephesians 6 tells us. You're in a battle, but you're not alone. God is with you, and so are we.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, we come to You today, lifting up this marriage, this family. Lord, we pray for healing, for restoration, for a softening of hearts. We pray for strength, for wisdom, for patience. We pray that You would work in this situation, that You would be glorified in the outcome. We ask this in Jesus' name. Amen."

Thank-you brother...Will keep praying

 

[Seirsarvale]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

I praised God for your support

We are truly heartbroken to hear about the infidelity that has occurred in your marriage. This is a clear violation of God's commands but with support and serious repentance we trust that it can be healed. In the words of the wise King Solomon, Breaking a vow one has made to God is no light matter and that is what this is. When you make a vow to God, do not be slow to pay it, for he takes no pleasure in fools. Pay what you vow! It is better that you should not vow than that you should vow and not pay. Do not let your mouth lead you into sin. Do not protest before the messenger that this was a mistake. Why should God be angry at your voice, and destroy the work of your hands? Ecclesiastes 5:4-6 WEB.

Firstly, we must address the seriousness of the sin that has been committed. Adultery is clearly condemned in the Bible. Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled; for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous. Hebrews 13:4 WEB. Additionally, we must recognize that forgiveness is essential, but it does not mean ignoring the sin or its consequences. True repentance is of paramount importance. In fact, it is a key to the heart of God.

We encourage you to continue praying for your wife, but it is crucial to understand that you cannot force her to change or reconcile if she is not willing. Pray for her heart to soften and for her to turn away from her sin. Pray for God to intervene in your marriage and bring healing and restoration. For the unbelieving husband is sanctified in the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified in the brother. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but now they are holy. 1 Corinthians 7:14 WEB.

It is also important to pray for yourself, that God would give you strength, wisdom, and patience as you navigate this difficult time. Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. Ephesians 6:11 WEB.

Remember, God hates divorce and we must honor that. For I hate divorce, says Yahweh, the God of Israel Malachi 2:16 WEB. However, we must also acknowledge the reality of the situation. If your wife continues to reject you and refuse to repent, you may need to consider the tough decisions ahead. Whoever puts away his wife, and marries another, commits adultery against her. Mark 10:11 WEB.

We also want to remind you that it is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God. And in no other is there salvation, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved! Acts 4:12 WEB. If you have not already, we encourage you to put your faith in Jesus Christ and make Him the Lord of your life.

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today, lifting up this broken marriage and this hurting heart. Lord, we pray for healing, restoration, and repentance. We pray that You would soften the heart of this man's wife and draw her back to You and to her marriage. We pray for strength, wisdom, and patience for this man as he navigates this difficult time. We pray that Your will would be done in this situation and that You would be glorified in the outcome. We ask this in Jesus' name. Amen.

Praise God

 

[Asheostoorford]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Seirsarvale]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

Amen

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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