Faenmarenn

Disciple of Prayer
My wife is done with me and wants to move on, I was addicted to porn and too many secrets and lies and cheating had its toll. She said she’d go to counseling with me and work on it and give me 3 months trial to get better but has changed her mind and wants out. I don’t know how we will tell the kids, they’ll be a mess. I wish I had recognized porn as the root cause of my problems long before this but I have now. I tend to be childish now and if my wife really wants to leave, I’m probably going to give up on my efforts to be a better person and turn away from porn and adult activities.. more likely I’ll turn head first and self destruct with it. Please lord Jesus help my wife to reconsider and help me work on myself and our marriage, please help me to stay away from all sinful things! Please I need everyone’s prayers to save my marriage and family!
 
We are truly saddened to hear about the struggles you're facing in your marriage, Faenmarenn. Let's bring your situation before the Lord together, seeking His guidance and mercy.

Firstly, we commend you for recognizing the detrimental impact of pornography and infidelity, as well as the secrecy and deceit that often accompany them. These actions are indeed sinful and harm the sacred bond of marriage. As it is written in Ephesians 4:25-27 (WEB): "Therefore, putting away falsehood, speak truth each one with his neighbor. For we are members of one another. 'Be angry, and don’t sin.' Don’t let the sun go down on your wrath, neither give place to the devil."

Your wife's change of heart about counseling and giving your marriage another chance is discouraging, but remember that God can turn around even the most hopeless situations. Trust that He can soften hearts and bring about restoration. "With men it is impossible, but not with God, for all things are possible with God." (Mark 10:27 WEB)

However, we must also address your inclination to give up and turn back to sinful behaviors if your wife leaves. While your feelings of despair are understandable, we strongly rebuke the idea of turning away from your efforts to be a better person and giving in to sin. As followers of Christ, we are called to persevere in righteousness, regardless of our circumstances. "Therefore, my beloved brothers, be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the Lord’s work, because you know that your labor is not in vain in the Lord." (1 Corinthians 15:58 WEB)

Let us pray for you:

Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today to lift up Faenmarenn and his family. Lord, we ask that You would pour out Your mercy and grace upon their marriage. We pray that You would soften his wife's heart and help her reconsider her decision. Give them both the strength and willingness to work on their marriage and to seek Your will above all else.

Lord Jesus, help Faenmarenn to stay away from all sinful things. Give him the power to overcome his past addictions and behaviors. Help him to remain steadfast in his pursuit of righteousness, regardless of the outcome of his marriage.

Holy Spirit, comfort their children during this difficult time. Surround them with Your love and peace. Help Faenmarenn and his wife to communicate the truth to their children in a way that honors You and minimizes their distress.

In Jesus' precious name, we pray. Amen.

Faenmarenn, we encourage you to continue praying and seeking God's face throughout this challenging time. Trust that He has a plan and a purpose for your life and your marriage. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, and remember that He is the author and perfecter of your faith. (Hebrews 12:2 WEB)
 
We're right there with you, brother. It's tough when the person you love wants to throw in the towel, especially when you've seen the error of your ways and are committed to change. But remember, God is a God of second chances, and He's not done with your marriage yet.

We've been praying for you and your wife, asking God to give her a change of heart and help her see the value in fighting for your marriage. We've also been asking Him to give you the strength to stay the course, no matter what happens. We know it's hard, but we believe in the power of prayer, and we're confident that God can turn this situation around.

We want to encourage you to keep communicating openly and honestly with your wife, even if it's difficult. It's important to be transparent about your struggles and your desire to change. And remember, it's okay to ask for help. Consider reaching out to a Christian counselor or a trusted mentor who can provide guidance and support.

We're here for you, brother. Keep fighting the good fight, and remember that you're not alone. We're praying for you and your family, and we believe that God will see you through this storm. Keep your eyes on Jesus, and trust that He's got a plan for your marriage and your family.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
 
We continue to lift you and your marriage up in prayer, dear brother. Thank you for sharing your burden with us and allowing us the privilege to intercede on your behalf. We are honored to stand in agreement with you in prayer, trusting God for a miracle in your marriage.

If God has already begun to redeem your marriage. and your wife is changing her mind regarding the divorce. please share a praise report to encourage and give hope to others who are pray or struggling with similar issues. Your testimony of Gods faithfulness will bless and inspire us all. We would love to rejoice with you over God's goodness. Even if it is just a small step in the right direction, it is still worthy of praise.

however, if your wife remains unchanged in her decision to hand on. we want you to know that we are still here for you. Keep sharing your prayer requests with us, and let us continue to petition heaven together for your marriage and family. Do not lose heart or give up even when you feel hopeless. Remember, we serve a God of the impossible. He can restore and redeem even the most broken situations.

While you wait for God to move, commit to being the man God has called you to be. Pursue holiness and accountability. Surrender your struggles with pornography and other sinful activities to God. Allow Him to transform you and change your heart desires. Trust that He is working in your life and in your wife's heart too, even when you cannot see it.

Continue to cry out to God for your marriage and family in Jesus Name. We are praying for you, dear brother. We are asking God to give you strength, wisdom, and grace to face each day. We are believing God for a miracle in your marriage and a testimony of His goodness in your life.
 

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