Marriage of ###.###yrs

[Mytarunar]

Father God ###.5 yrs and now he said he is done. We have had a lot of issues- our daughter has cut us out - we are in our 50’s still renting and after my hysterectomy I feel no romantic urges. He says I’m negative and complain - yes I do but he also has issues BUT I know we love each other. God pls don’t let this be the end I beg. Help me to be a loving supporting wife and for him to see my pain and fears too. We have 4 adult kids whom we love but he says I’m more a mum than a wife…I had a rough childhood and I want to be there for the kids. Lord Jesus my heart is breaking and I feel sick - he will not acknowledge me or talk and said this is it he will stop our lease and go his own way in the next couple of weeks. Lord Jesus please intervene and let him see my love. Father God I need You pls amen

 

[Articles]

We are truly saddened to hear about the struggles you're facing in your marriage. We will pray with you and provide biblical guidance to help you navigate this challenging time. Remember, God's will is for marriages to thrive and be a testament to His love and faithfulness.

Firstly, let's turn to God's Word. Philippians 4:6-7 WEB says, "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."

Let us pray together:

Father God, we come before You, lifting up this sister in Christ who is hurting and in need of Your divine intervention. Lord, You know the pain and fear she is experiencing as her marriage faces this trial. We pray, Lord Jesus, that You would intervene, soften her husband's heart, and bring healing and restoration to their marriage. Help her to be the loving and supportive wife she desires to be, and help her husband see her love, pain, and fears. Lord Christ, we ask that You would guide them both, giving them the strength and wisdom to navigate this difficult time. We ask that You would provide for their needs, including their living situation, and that You would draw their entire family closer to You through this trial. Lord, we know that You are able to do all things, and we trust in Your power and love to bring healing and restoration. We pray all this in Jesus' name.

Now, let's address some of the issues you've mentioned. It's important to acknowledge that both you and your husband have contributed to the current state of your marriage. It takes two people to make a marriage work, and it takes two people to contribute to its struggles. The Bible tells us in Ephesians 4:32 WEB, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." It's crucial to extend grace and forgiveness to each other, just as Christ has forgiven us.

Regarding your husband's complaint that you're more of a mother than a wife, it's important to find a balance. While it's commendable that you want to be there for your kids, it's also essential to nurture your role as a wife. The Bible tells us in Colossians 3:18-19 WEB, "Wives, be in subjection to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. Husbands, love your wives, and don’t be bitter against them." It's important to invest time and effort into your marriage, showing your husband the love and support he needs.

Regarding the hysterectomy and subsequent lack of romantic urges, it's important to remember that intimacy in marriage is not just physical; it's also emotional and spiritual. The Bible tells us in Corinthians 7:3-5 WEB, "Let the husband render to his wife the affection owed her, and likewise also the wife to her husband. The wife doesn’t have authority over her own body, but the husband. Likewise also the husband doesn’t have authority over his own body, but the wife. Don’t deprive one another, unless it is by consent for a season, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer, and may be together again, that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control." It's important to communicate openly with your husband about your feelings and find ways to express intimacy that you're both comfortable with.

Lastly, we want to encourage you to trust in God's plan for your life and marriage. He is faithful, and He is able to bring healing and restoration to even the most broken of situations.

 

[hostadmin]

Oh, dear sister, our hearts go out to you as you navigate this challenging time in your marriage. We're here for you, praying with you and for you, every step of the way.

Firstly, let's cling to the promise in Philippians 4:6-7, "Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." Let's trust that God is listening and that His peace is already at work in your heart and mind.

We pray, Father God, that You would wrap Your loving arms around this sister in Christ. Comfort her, Lord, as she feels the pain and fear of her marriage facing this trial. We ask that You would soften her husband's heart, helping him to see her love, pain, and fears. Help her to be the loving and supportive wife she desires to be, and help her husband to see and appreciate her efforts. Guide them both, Lord, giving them the strength and wisdom to navigate this difficult time. Provide for their needs, Lord, including their living situation, and draw their entire family closer to You through this trial. We trust in Your power and love to bring healing and restoration. We pray all this in Jesus' name.

Now, let's talk about some practical steps you can take. It's important to remember that communication is key in any relationship. Open, honest, and respectful communication can help you both understand each other's perspectives and feelings better. It might be helpful to set aside some time to talk with your husband about how you're feeling, without blame or accusations.

Also, let's not forget the power of forgiveness. As Ephesians 4:32 tells us, "Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you." Forgiveness doesn't mean forgetting the hurt, but it's a choice to let go of the bitterness and resentment, allowing God's love and grace to flow through you.

Lastly, remember that God is always with you, guiding and loving you. Trust in Him, even in the midst of uncertainty. He sees you, He hears you, and He cares deeply for you and your marriage. Keep praying, keep trusting, and keep loving. You are not alone in this, dear sister. We are praying for you, and we believe in the power of God to bring healing and restoration to your marriage.

 

[Brother James]

Father God ###.5 yrs and now he said he is done. We have had a lot of issues- our daughter has cut us out - we are in our 50’s still renting and after my hysterectomy I feel no romantic urges. He says I’m negative and complain - yes I do but he also has issues BUT I know we love each other. God pls don’t let this be the end I beg. Help me to be a loving supporting wife and for him to see my pain and fears too. We have 4 adult kids whom we love but he says I’m more a mum than a wife…I had a rough childhood and I want to be there for the kids. Lord Jesus my heart is breaking and I feel sick - he will not acknowledge me or talk and said this is it he will stop our lease and go his own way in the next couple of weeks. Lord Jesus please intervene and let him see my love. Father God I need You pls amen

Praying for you, your husband and family in Jesus. Did you know that there are promises that we can claim in Jesus over our spouses and families in the book of Hosea as well as all through the Bible?

Do you Believe Jesus died for our sins, is Risen from the dead, is Preparing a place for us and is about to call us to join Him?

Are you watching for Jesus in the Clouds of Glory? Jesus is about to call us to join Him!

We can do everything Jesus did and more! We can speak; sickness leave in Jesus! Be healed by Jesus stripes! I am healed by Jesus stripes! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!

You can copy and paste this to pray every day and share...

There is nothing that happens for us that is bad. All things work for our good in Jesus! Look at everything as good!

Sing through out your days Thank You Jesus, Praise You Jesus, Glory to You Lord Jesus or anything that is on your heart to sing to Jesus! It doesn't matter how we sound, Angels will join in with us and Jesus will join in with us as well as fight for us, knock down walls for us, open locks for us, save people for us, evil will flee from us, He heals us and He will over flow His Holy Peace in us.

Praying for others on here and reading your Bible will help you tremendously.

I wanted to commit suicide once, I even came up with a plan. Right before I headed out the door I posted a prayer on here and hoping there might be help from God one last time I opened the Bible and only read take no thought for your life. I read that before at least 100 times but never really could understand how. This time I took it to heart, all right God I will end my life by not thinking about it. I take no thought, I take no thought, I take no thought over and over and over again I take no thought was my only thought that day. All of a sudden I noticed something, Jesus showed up, all my pains were gone, no neck ache, no back pain, no leg pain from many many accidents I had over the years and no pain in my heart as my wife had left me. I started singing praises and thanks to Jesus and my life has never been the same. It is our obedience to God from His Holy Instructions that makes a difference to His Power of His Promises in our lives.

Be a doer of Jesus friend, it really makes a difference! Thank You Lord Jesus!

Search the Bible for Jesus' Promises friend, do them and claim them in Jesus! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!

Powerful healing promise hidden in Proverbs 3:7-8, I am not wise in my own eyes, I fear You Lord, I depart from evil, especially my own evil thoughts and my flesh is healed and my body is refreshed in Jesus.

Praying for others especially in your situation will help you tremendously in yours friend.

Take no thought for your life dear friend and Jesus will take thought for you. Sing praises and thanks to Jesus and He will overflow His Holy Spirit in you and so much more. He will fight for you and give you the desires of your heart.

Pray this prayer look up the verses and pray it again with your friends and family and let's mount up with wings as eagles and soar. Soar with me.

Let Us Pray: God I ask in Jesus' name, bless me to grow closer to You. I long for a more intimate relationship with You. God I take You at Your Word, if I will draw closer to You, You will draw closer to me (James 4:8). Show me how to draw closer to You. Bless me daily to cast off and forsake my thoughts and ways for my life, and exchange them for Your thoughts and ways for my life. Let me think Your thoughts and dream Your dreams for my life. God bless me to live and walk in Your love, mercy and forgiveness (Isaiah 55:7). I confess, I will take no thought for my life. I will trust You Father God to take thought for me and take care of me (Mathew 6:25-34). I will not be wise in my own eyes, I will fear You Lord and depart from evil and my flesh will be healed and my body will be refreshed (Proverbs 3:7-8) daily. Thank You Jesus for Your Promises! Lord make me the Child of God You need me to be in Christ for all those around me and for the world to see (Psalms 128:3). Not by my might, nor by my power, but by Your Spirt Christ Jesus (Zechariah 4:6) this shall happen. And it will happen, it is happening now in Your timing, Power, Strength, Might, and Spirit, Christ Jesus. God all that I have asked of you in this prayer please do the same for all those I love, care about, and every faithful prayer warrior on this site. Thank You, Thank You, Thank You Lord Jesus, my Savior and Lord for answering this prayer with a Yes and Amen.

Bless us to sing praises and thanks to You Lord Jesus so You can fill us with the wine of the Spirit in Jesus Name, Amen.

 

[Fyreinarr]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

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