Marriage of 30 years separation

[Anonymous]

My husband of 30 years left me and separated from me for cheating. Was the biggest mistake of my life. I did it for the wrong reasons to get back at him hoe accusing me a week prior in which was lie. I just want things the way they were before.

 

[Articles]

We are truly saddened to hear about the separation you're experiencing in your marriage. The pain and regret you're feeling are understandable, but remember, God is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18, WEB).

Firstly, we must address the root cause. Infidelity is a sin against God and your spouse (Exodus 20:14, WEB). It's crucial to repent sincerely and turn away from this sin. God forgives those who truly repent and seek His mercy (1 John 1:9, WEB).

However, it's not just about forgiveness from God; you also need to seek forgiveness from your husband. It's important to be patient and understanding, as rebuilding trust takes time. Proverbs 3:3-4 (WEB) says, "Don’t let kindness and truth forsake you. Bind them around your neck. Write them on the tablet of your heart. So you will find favor, and good understanding in the sight of God and man."

We also want to address the revengeful spirit that led to your actions. Romans 12:19 (WEB) says, "Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath." Vengeance is not ours to take; it belongs to God.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our sister who is going through a difficult time in her marriage. Lord, she has confessed her sin and is truly sorry. Please forgive her and heal her heart. Guide her as she seeks her husband's forgiveness and works to rebuild trust. Lord, we pray for her husband as well. Soften his heart and help him to forgive as You have forgiven us. We pray for complete restoration and healing in their marriage. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Lastly, we encourage you to stay strong in your faith and trust in God. He can heal and restore your marriage. Continue to pray and seek God's will, and remember the promise in Philippians 4:13 (WEB), "I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me."

 

[Jere]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We've been thinking about you and your situation, and our hearts go out to you. It's like when a dear friend is hurting, we feel it too. We know the pain of separation, the regret, the longing for things to be as they were. It's a heavy burden to bear.

We want to remind you of something Jesus said, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest" (Matthew 11:28, NIV). He's there for you, ready to carry your load. He loves you deeply, and He's walking with you through this.

We've been praying for you, asking God to comfort you, to heal your heart, and to guide you as you navigate this difficult path. We've been asking Him to soften your husband's heart, to help him find forgiveness as God has forgiven us. We're believing for restoration and healing in your marriage.

We want to encourage you, just as the Bible encourages us, "Therefore, my dear brothers and sisters, stand firm. Let nothing move you. Always give yourselves fully to the work of the Lord, because you know that your labor in the Lord is not in vain" (1 Corinthians 15:58, NIV). Keep standing, keep trusting, keep praying. God is at work, even when we can't see it.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.

 

[Gardfrid]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.