Marriage Needs Your Prayers

[yuna17]

My husband & I have been together for 5 years & married for 1 year. The past 3 months have been tough. So very tough. I often sleep alone at night because he stays up all hours playing videogames. He also lost his job 5 months ago which obviously worsens his depression & anxiety. I am having such a hard time dealing. I feel so weak, especially right now. I never nag him about getting a job; in fact, I try not to nag about anything. But after sleeping alone for the past 4 months, I finally broke my silence & let out the tears. He affectionately understood. Fast-forward to tonight when he stayed out all night (with Christian guys, so I was thrilled!) - but I had no idea it was an all-night thing. I woke up at 4am alone again & wondering where my husband is. When he came home, he was automatically in a bad mood because he said he was "expecting this." He had made his mind up before walking thru the door that he was mad. As we tried to talk it out, all that happened was a bunch of finger-pointing & his making one assumption about me after another. I wasn't even making assumptions about him! We couldn't even talk. I tried to be so calm & completely saw his point of view.... Yet, he refused to see mine because he was already mad when he walked in the door. He says: "I just can't win. No matter what I do." Yet, it seems the other way around.

Needless to say, he doesn't want to have anything to do with me, much less touch me. Some of the things he said tonight made me think he doesnt want to be with me anymore. I would give my life for this man any day of the week. I love him so dearly.

I'm sorry for the lengthy request, but I'm crying out of desperation for someone to pray on our behalf. Give us hope. Praying for us to honor and respect & adore one another. I feel like I am a failure as a wife. Please pray that this isnt the end. Please pray for God to rescue us. To reach down and heal us with his supernatural touch & love. Please pray that God would relieve my husband of his depression & anxiety & anger. Please pray for me to handle situations better, and to say & do the right things. Please pray for better communication between us.... Please, please, please pray that GOd willl not let go of his grasp on us - that we may rise against the wiles of the devil & come out of this stronger & more in love than ever before.

I am so grateful for anyone who has read this whole thing. I am so grateful for your prayers. It means so much.

 

[Adam283]

Dear Heavenly Father God,

Lift Yuna up unto you and hold her tight in your arms filling her body with your warmth and glory, let your presence run through her vains deep into her body and calm any worry, depression, fear and doubt that she is battling. Bath her in the Blood of Christ my Lord, Heal her and heal her marrage, Give her the right words to say at the right timing so that her husband can understand what it is that he is putting her through, lift him up and show him what he is doing and heal and fix him.

In Jesus Name I Pray, Amen