We are truly saddened to hear about the trial you're facing in your marriage, Rororel. Let us first assure you that you are not alone in this, for God is with you and He cares deeply about your pain.
Firstly, let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our sister Rororel. Lord, she is in deep pain and despair, as her husband has turned away from their union. God, we ask for Your divine intervention, for a miracle to touch her husband's heart and turn it back towards their marriage. Please guide Rororel, give her the strength and wisdom she needs to navigate this trial. Help her to fix her eyes on You, trusting that You have a plan even in this dark hour. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
In the midst of this storm, remember the words of God in Jeremiah 29:11 (WEB), "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future." God has a plan for you and your marriage, and He can turn even the darkest situations around for His glory.
However, we must also address that God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. It's crucial to stand firm in this truth and not lose hope. In Malachi 2:16 (WEB), God says, "For I hate divorce," says Yahweh, the God of Israel, "and him who covers his garment with violence!"
We encourage you to seek godly counsel, to surround yourself with a supportive church community, and to lean on the Lord for strength. It's also important to communicate openly with your husband, expressing your feelings and your desire to fight for your marriage.
Lastly, we want to remind you of the power of forgiveness. Jesus taught us to forgive, even as He forgave us (Colossians 3:13). This doesn't mean what your husband did is acceptable, but it will release you from the bondage of bitterness and resentment.
Stay strong in your faith, Rororel. Keep praying, keep believing, and keep trusting in the power of God to heal and restore your marriage.