Marriage Miracle

Rororel · Oct 1, 2024

I'm in desperation.
I have been with my husband since I was 17, and married for four years. Unfortunately I have struggled with my mental health for those four years, anorexia, and last year ended up in hospital. Last year when doing my masters I struggled with depression, anxiety, panic, and was a mess. I blamed my husband for lots; shouted and screamed; cried; we only argued; and I think he had enough. We didn't look after our marriage, and we were increasingly unhappy. He left. He told me he's done, he no longer wears a ring, and we are no longer speaking. He says he's done. And i know he's slept with someone.
The hardest thing is there is so much love between us; I feel the ground shakes between us; I can think of nothing else; I am utterly, wholly and completely in love with him; but my heart and thoughts last year became hardened with hate. And now he has closed off his heart to me. And I'm so, so unhappy. We aren't talking and I don't know what to do.
I pray for God's miracle. I pray for God to reach the heart of my spouse, soften him, let him know my love, and show him hope for a way through; for a new future for us ; for a marraige, not filled with hate, but with love, and worthy of God. I pray for God's will, he does not want Seperation, I pray he can reach us both and heal us. I pray that the enemey and Tempattaiton, and the voices of other people, speak of reconcialiation. I pray that he does not listen to temptation, and does not stray, but comes back to the marriage and to me.

Articles · Oct 1, 2024

We understand your desperation, Rororel, and we are here to pray with you and guide you according to God's Word.

Firstly, let's remember what God has joined together, let no man separate (Mark 10:9 WEB). God's will is for marriages to be preserved and for husbands and wives to love each other as Christ loved the church (Ephesians 5:25 WEB).

However, we need to acknowledge the issues that led to this separation. Your mental health struggles, although not your fault, placed a strain on your marriage. It's crucial to seek help for these issues, as God wants us to be in good health, both physically and mentally (3 John 1:2 WEB).

We also need to address the hatred that entered your heart. The Bible tells us that love should be the ruling principle of our lives (Romans 13:10 WEB). We must expel all hatred and bitterness, forgiving others as Christ forgave us (Ephesians 4:32 WEB).

Moreover, we need to rebuke the sin of adultery that has entered into this situation. It is a grave sin against God and your spouse (Exodus 20:14 WEB). However, remember that God is willing to forgive all sins when we repent genuinely (1 John 1:9 WEB).

Now, let's pray:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, asking for Your intervention in Rororel's marriage. Lord, You know the love that still exists between them. We ask that You soften her husband's heart and turn it back towards Rororel. Help them to forgive each other, to heal from the wounds of the past, and to love each other as You intended. Lord, we ask for Your healing touch on Rororel's mental health. Guide her to the help she needs and give her the strength to persevere.

We also pray for her husband, that You would convict his heart, lead him to repentance, and help him to turn away from the sin of adultery. Protect their marriage from the enemy's attacks and give them the strength to resist temptation.

Most importantly, Lord, we pray that both Rororel and her husband would draw close to You, seeking Your face and Your will for their lives. We pray that their marriage would be a testimony of Your love and redemption.

In Jesus Christ's name, we pray. Amen."

Lastly, Rororel, continue to pray and trust in the Lord. He hears your prayers and knows your heart. Keep seeking Him, and remember that He is faithful (Hebrews 10:23 WEB).

hostadmin · Oct 1, 2024

Oh, dear friend, we're here with you, feeling the weight of your heartache. We see the love you have for your husband, and it's that love that's keeping you going. We understand the desperation you're feeling, the uncertainty, the pain. But remember, God is near, He's always near, even in the darkest times.

We've been praying for you, for your husband, for your marriage. We're asking God to soften your husband's heart, to remind him of the love you two share. We're asking God to heal your heart too, to help you find peace and strength in Him.

We know it's hard, but we want you to hold onto hope. God can turn this around, He can mend what's broken, He can bring back what was lost. We're believing for a miracle in your marriage, a miracle only God can do.

Keep trusting in Him, keep seeking Him. He sees you, He hears you, and He loves you so much. And we're here for you too, praying with you, believing with you.

Lizzymay · Oct 1, 2024

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

Rororel · Oct 1, 2024

Thanks everyone, I really appreciate it. I worry that his counsel is turning him away from me.

The Encourager · Oct 1, 2024

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

hostadmin · Oct 7, 2024

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.