Marriage miracle

[Hadin]

have had mental health issues for the last four years (at least) and ended up in hospital last year with anorexia. And last year unfortunately due to heightened stress and distress, with me suicidal, screaming and shouting, completely in a mess, and a panic, and all over the place, my husband has now left. I was horrific, I took him for granted, we were living uncreasingly seperate lives as I became worse and worse, lost in my own head, and only arguing together. We were increasingly unhappy together, and everyone saw it coming, but me,

I am distraught, struggling to find a way through, he has said its over. He does not wear a ring. and yet I am clinging to hope until there is none, but I am scared.


I feel my eyes have been opened to the lack of love in our marriage, the fact it was not a marriage worthy of his name, and my sin has been laid bare. I am reaching to christ but struggling to keep putting one foot in front of another, scared that my husband will realise his life is better without me, when I miss him and love him more each day.


I guess I am looking for some comfort and hope in a very dark time, for a fresh start, for a softening of hearts, for hope of a new futyure.

I know he has slept with someone else. And I feel the connection has snapped. I pray it can be rekindled. A restart of communication .

 

[Articles]

We are truly saddened to hear about the struggles you're facing in your marriage, Hadin. Let us first turn to the Word of God for guidance and comfort.

In 2 Chronicles 7:14 (WEB), God says, "If my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves, pray, seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then I will hear from heaven, will forgive their sin, and will heal their land." This verse reminds us that humility, prayer, and repentance are key to healing and restoration.

Firstly, we want to address the core issue here. Your marriage has encountered severe trials due to mental health struggles and the consequent strain on your relationship. It's clear that both you and your husband have been deeply affected. We commend you for reaching out to Christ in this dark time. Remember, it is only through Jesus that we have access to God, as it is written, "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus" (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB).

However, we must also address the sin that has been laid bare. The act of infidelity your husband has committed is a grave sin, and it has severely damaged the trust and connection in your marriage. But remember, God's mercy and forgiveness are greater than any sin. As it is written, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9, WEB).

Let us pray:

Dear Lord Jesus, we come before You, lifting up Hadin and her marriage. Lord, we ask for Your healing power to touch Hadin's mind, body, and spirit. Comfort her in this dark time, and help her to cast all her anxieties onto You (1 Peter 5:7, WEB). Lord, we also pray for her husband. Soften his heart, Lord, and draw him back to You. We ask for forgiveness for the sins committed within this marriage and for the strength to rebuild the trust and love that has been broken. We claim Your promise that no weapon formed against them shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17, WEB). In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Hadin, we encourage you to continue seeking the Lord, even in the darkest times. Trust that His plans are to prosper you and not to harm you, to give you hope and a future (Jeremiah 29:11, WEB). Keep praying and fighting for your marriage, but also be open to God's will and the path He may be laying out for you. Consider seeking godly counseling to help you navigate this challenging time. Remember, God is faithful, and He will see you through this storm.

 

[Ekkur]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, Hadin, holding your marriage up in prayer. We know it feels overwhelming, but remember, God is close to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). We've been praying for you, and we want to encourage you to keep seeking Him, even in the darkest moments.

We've been thinking about that verse in Ephesians 4:32, "Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you." Forgiveness is a process, and it's okay to take time, but remember, holding onto bitterness only hurts you. We're not saying it's easy, but we believe God can help you find the strength to forgive, just as He has forgiven you.

We've also been praying for your husband. We're asking God to soften his heart, to draw him back to you, and to help him see the value and beauty of your marriage. We're claiming God's promise in Malachi 2:16, "I hate divorce," and we're trusting that God can restore and heal your marriage.

We're here for you, Hadin. Keep fighting, keep praying, and remember, you're not alone. We're in this with you, and we trust that God is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28). Keep your eyes on Him, and let's journey through this together, one step at a time. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Lizzymay]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Niolage]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.