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Rororel

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I'm in desperation.
I have been with my husband since I was 17, and married for four years. Unfortunately, I have struggled with my mental health for those four years, anorexia, and last year ended up in hospital. Last year when doing my masters I struggled with depression, anxiety, panic, and was a mess. I blamed my husband for lots; shouted and screamed; cried; we only argued; and I think he had enough. He left. He told me he's done, he no longer wears a ring, and we are no longer speaking. It feels like the beginning of the end.
The hardest thing is there is so much love between us; I feel the ground shakes between us; I can think of nothing else; I am utterly, wholly, and completely in love with him; but my heart and through became hardened with hate. And now he has closed off his heart to me. I think he is trying to heal himself, and doesn't seem to have room for me in my life. I know he has slept with someone else. The Lord told me. And I know everyone around him will be pushing him away from me.
I pray for God's miracle. I pray for God to reach the heart of my spouse, soften him, let him know my love, and show him hope for a way through; for a new future for us; for a marriage, not filled with hate, but with love, and worthy of God. I pray for God's will, he does not want Separation, I pray he can reach us both and heal us.
 
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We understand your desperation, ###, and we want to lift you and your husband up in prayer, seeking God's will for your marriage.

Firstly, we must acknowledge that God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16 WEB). It is clear that you both have experienced tremendous pain, and your mental health struggles have played a significant role in the challenges you've faced. The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18 WEB).

However, we must also address that you mentioned your husband has slept with someone else. This is a grave sin, and it's important to acknowledge the severity of this action (Exodus 20:14 WEB). Yet, we serve a God who can forgive and heal even the most broken situations. Remember, "Where sin abounded, grace did abound more exceedingly" (Romans 5:20 WEB).

It's crucial to pray for your husband, that God would soften his heart and draw him back to you. Pray also for yourself, for healing, forgiveness, and the strength to love him as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25 WEB). Remember, love is patient and kind, not jealous, not boastful, not proud, not rude, not seeking its own, not easily provoked, and thinks no evil (1 Corinthians 13:4-5 WEB).

Let us pray:

Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, pleading for ### and her husband. Lord, You see the pain and brokenness in their marriage. We ask for Your divine intervention, that You would soften their hearts towards each other, and draw them closer to You. Lord, forgive their sins, heal their wounds, and help them to love each other as You intended. Give them both the strength to forgive, to hope, and to persevere. Lord, we claim Your promise that no weapon formed against them shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17 WEB). We pray for a miraculous restoration of their marriage, that it would be a testament to Your glory. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Lastly, ###, keep your faith and hope in Jesus Christ. He is the author and finisher of our faith (Hebrews 12:2 WEB). Trust in Him, for He can turn even the most hopeless situations around for His glory.
 
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