Marriage miracle

Rororel · Sep 25, 2024

'm in desperation.
I have been with my husband since I was 17, and married for four years. Unfortunately I have struggled with my mental health for those four years, anorexia, and last year ended up in hospital. Last year when doing my masters I struggled with depression, anxiety, panic, and was a mess. I blamed my husband for lots; shouted and screamed; cried; we only argued; and I think he had enough. He left. He told me he's done, he no longer wears a ring, and we are no longer speaking. He says he's done. And i know he's slept with someone
The hardest thing is there is so much love between us; I feel the ground shakes between us; I can think of nothing else; I am utterly, wholly and compltely in love with him; but my heart and through became hardened with hate. And now he has closed off his heart to me.
I pray for God's miracle. I pray for God to reach the heart of my spouse, soften him, let him know my love, and show him hope for a way through; for a new future for us ; for a marraige, not filled with hate, but with love, and worthy of God. I pray for God's will, he does not want Seperation, I pray he can reach us both and heal us.

Articles · Sep 25, 2024

We understand your desperation, Rororel, and we're here to lift you up in prayer and provide biblical counsel.

Firstly, we commend you for acknowledging your struggles and for your desire to seek God's will. It's important to remember that God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16, WEB), and He wants marriages to be healed and restored. However, it's also crucial to understand that God wants us to be holy as He is holy (1 Peter 1:16, WEB), and that sin can create a division between us and God, and between us and our spouses.

In your case, it's clear that there have been sins committed by both parties. You mentioned your struggles with mental health, which are not sins in themselves, but the way we handle them can lead to sin. You also mentioned shouting, screaming, blame, and hate, which are indeed sins. Furthermore, your husband has committed adultery, which is clearly condemned in the Ten Commandments (Exodus 20:14, WEB).

We must first repent of our own sins before we can ask God to intervene. As Jesus taught, "Why do you see the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but don’t consider the beam that is in your own eye? Or how will you tell your brother, ‘Let me remove the speck from your eye;’ and behold, the beam is in your own eye? You hypocrite! First remove the beam from your own eye, and then you can see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye." (Matthew 7:3-5, WEB)

Let us pray:

*Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Rororel and her husband. Lord, we ask for Your forgiveness for the sins they have committed against each other and against You. We pray that Rororel will humble herself before You, repenting of her sins, and that You will give her the strength to overcome her mental health struggles in a way that honors You.*

*Lord, we also pray for her husband. We ask that You would convict his heart of the sin he has committed, and that You would give him the courage to repent and turn away from his sin. We pray that You would soften both of their hearts towards each other, and that You would heal their marriage, making it a testament to Your love and faithfulness.*

*Lord, we ask that You would be glorified in this situation, and that Rororel and her husband would grow closer to You through this trial. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.*

Remember, Rororel, that it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to God (John 14:6, WEB). Keep praying, keep seeking God, and trust that He has a plan for your life and your marriage. Even in the darkest times, God is working for the good of those who love Him (Romans 8:28, WEB).

Lastly, we encourage you to seek professional help for your mental health struggles. God can work through doctors and therapists to bring healing and wholeness. Don't lose hope, keep fighting, and keep trusting in God.

hostadmin · Sep 25, 2024

Dear Rororel,

We've been praying for you and your husband, and our hearts go out to you in this difficult time. We understand the pain and desperation you're feeling, and we want you to know that you're not alone.

We've been reflecting on your situation and feel led to share a few more things with you. First, we want to remind you of the power of love in your marriage. The Bible tells us that love is patient, love is kind, and it does not dishonor others (1 Corinthians 13:4-5, NIV). It's clear that there's still a deep love between you and your husband, and that's a powerful force that can help bring healing and restoration.

We also want to encourage you to keep seeking God with all your heart. He promises in Jeremiah 29:13, "You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart" (NIV). Keep crying out to Him, keep reading His Word, and trust that He is working even in the midst of this trial.

Lastly, we want to remind you of the importance of forgiveness. Holding onto bitterness and resentment can only cause more harm, both to you and your marriage. As it says in Ephesians 4:32, "Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you" (NIV).

We're continuing to pray for you, Rororel. We pray that God would soften both of your hearts, that He would heal your marriage, and that He would give you both the strength to forgive and to move forward together.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

abundantlyblessed · Sep 25, 2024

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

CJL80 · Sep 25, 2024

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

Pendollyn · Sep 25, 2024

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

The Encourager · Sep 25, 2024

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

Rororel · Sep 26, 2024

hostadmin said:
Dear Rororel,

We've been praying for you and your husband, and our hearts go out to you in this difficult time. We understand the pain and desperation you're feeling, and we want you to know that you're not alone.

We've been reflecting on your situation and feel led to share a few more things with you. First, we want to remind you of the power of love in your marriage. The Bible tells us that love is patient, love is kind, and it does not dishonor others (1 Corinthians 13:4-5, NIV). It's clear that there's still a deep love between you and your husband, and that's a powerful force that can help bring healing and restoration.

We also want to encourage you to keep seeking God with all your heart. He promises in Jeremiah 29:13, "You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart" (NIV). Keep crying out to Him, keep reading His Word, and trust that He is working even in the midst of this trial.

Lastly, we want to remind you of the importance of forgiveness. Holding onto bitterness and resentment can only cause more harm, both to you and your marriage. As it says in Ephesians 4:32, "Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you" (NIV).

We're continuing to pray for you, Rororel. We pray that God would soften both of your hearts, that He would heal your marriage, and that He would give you both the strength to forgive and to move forward together.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Can I pray with you in real time? Can we be in touch? I've never been in such a bad place, and I'd love to hear Jesus' voice more clearly. I love him so much, and I really don't want to break this apart.

hostadmin · Oct 1, 2024

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.