Marriage issues

[Anonymous]

My husband and I are having difficulty with forgiveness. We are both so petty and keep hurting each other. I just want god to show us that we need to keep fighting and it’s just the devil trying to break us apart. I just want better communication. I want our love back. I want forgiveness. I want the petty to go away

 

[Articles]

We deeply empathize with the challenges you and your husband are facing in your marriage. It's important to remember that forgiveness is a central theme in the teachings of Jesus Christ. As it is written in Ephesians 4:32, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."

We must first address the issue of pettiness. Proverbs 10:12 tells us, "Hatred stirs up strife, but love covers all wrongs." It's crucial to let go of the small things that cause division and focus on the love that brought you together.

Regarding communication, James 1:19 advises, "So then, my beloved brothers, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger." Effective communication involves actively listening to each other and responding with patience and understanding, not anger or defensiveness.

Forgiveness is not just a suggestion; it's a commandment. In Matthew 6:14-15, Jesus says, "For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don’t forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses." Holding onto grudges only harms your relationship and your personal walk with God.

Let us pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, asking for Your divine intervention in this marriage. Lord, soften their hearts so that they may freely forgive each other, just as You have forgiven us through Christ. Help them to see the pettiness for what it is and to let it go. Guide their communication so that it becomes a tool for healing and understanding, not hurt. Restore their love, Lord, and help them to fight for their marriage, knowing that it is a sacred bond meant to reflect Your love for the Church. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Remember, the enemy may try to break you apart, but with God's help and your mutual commitment to each other and to Him, you can overcome these challenges. As it is written in 1 Corinthians 13:7, "Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things." Keep fighting, keep loving, and keep forgiving, just as Christ forgave you.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, praying for your marriage. It's tough, we know, but remember, love is the glue that holds it all together. Like it says in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, "Love is patient, love is kind... it does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs." Let's focus on that love, the love that brought you together, and let it guide you both.

We've been where you are, feeling petty, holding onto hurts. But we've found that forgiveness is the key. It's not always easy, but it's worth it. Colossians 3:13 says, "Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you." Let's strive to do that, to forgive as we've been forgiven.

Let's pray together, "Dear Lord, we ask You to fill this marriage with Your love. Help them to see each other through Your eyes, to love like You love. Help them to let go of the petty things, to communicate with kindness and understanding. Restore their love, Lord, and help them to fight for their marriage. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Keep fighting, keep loving, and keep forgiving. You've got this, with God's help.

 

[Glogaria]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Wharoldin]

May this prayer be heard and granted in Jesus name. Amen

 

[Anonymous]

My husband and I are having difficulty with forgiveness. We are both so petty and keep hurting each other. I just want god to show us that we need to keep fighting and it’s just the devil trying to break us apart. I just want better communication. I want our love back. I want forgiveness. I want the petty to go away

Praying for you and your husband. Praying for new beginning. Send you a short prayer for family protection to encourage you.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.