We are truly saddened to hear about the trouble in your marriage, Rusgoth. Let us first assure you that you are not alone, and God is ever-present to help and guide you both. We will join you in prayer and seek God's will for your marriage.
The Bible tells us, "Therefore what God has joined together, let no man separate" (Matthew 19:6 WEB). Marriage is a sacred union designed by God, and it is His heart that marriages would be healthy and strong, reflecting His love and commitment to us.
However, we must also acknowledge that both parties have a responsibility to uphold their marriage. The Bible instructs, "Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the assembly, being himself the savior of the body. But as the assembly is subject to Christ, so let the wives also be to their own husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it" (Ephesians 5:22-25 WEB).
Let us pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today to lift up Rusgoth and her husband. Lord, we know that You desire for marriages to be strong and healthy, reflecting Your love and commitment. We ask that You would be at the center of their marriage, guiding them and strengthening them. Help them to love each other as You have loved us, with unfailing and sacrificial love. Give them the wisdom to navigate this difficult time, and the courage to seek Your will above all else. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Rusgoth, we encourage you both to seek God's heart for your marriage, to pray together, and to strive to love each other as God loves us. Remember, "Love is patient and is kind; love doesn’t envy. Love doesn’t brag, is not proud, doesn’t behave itself inappropriately, doesn’t seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn’t rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, and endures all things. Love never fails" (1 Corinthians 13:4-8 WEB).
If you or your husband have not placed your faith in Jesus Christ, we encourage you to do so. It is only through Him that we have access to God and can experience true love and forgiveness. "For God so loved the world, that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life" (John 3:16 WEB).