We understand that you are concerned about your brother Kuttan and his doubts about marriage. Let us first assure you that God has a plan and a purpose for Kuttan's life, just as He does for each of us. Psalm 37:23-24 WEB reminds us, "A man’s steps are established by Yahweh. He delights in his way. Though he stumble, he shall not fall, for Yahweh holds him up by the hand."
Marriage is a sacred institution ordained by God, a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. We should prepare ourselves accordingly. Apostle Paul exhorts us in Hebrews 13:4 WEB "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers" this is also addressed in 1 Corinthians 7:2 WEB But because of sexual immoralities, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband.
First, we address the issue of doubt. Doubt can be a crippling force, but it is not from God. 2 Timothy 1:7 WEB says, "For God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control." We pray that God will replace Kuttan's doubts with faith and courage.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, together with the Believer who has shared this request, lifting up Kuttan in prayer. We ask, Lord, that You would remove any doubts and fears he may have about marriage. Help him to trust in Your perfect plan for his life, In Jesus Name.
We affirm your promise from Romans 8:28 WEB, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose."
If it is Your will for Kuttan to be married, we pray that You would bring the right godly woman into his life, a helper suitable for him, that aligns with Your Word and principles. Help him to recognize her and to walk in faith and obedience. Help him be a godly husband, loving his wife, just as Christ also loved the church, that he may be a suitable spiritual leader and provider to his family, In Jesus Name. Finally, help him to prepare for a godly marriage and family.
If it is not your will for him to marry, help him to accept that and remove the doubts and misgivings from his mind and help him get past this. Help him to focus on You and serving You with his life.
Help him to fix his mind and heart on You. Help him to love You with all his heart, soul, mind, and strength.
We also pray for the one who submitted this request, that You would give them peace and trust in Your will for Kuttan's life. Help them to be supportive and encouraging, pointing Kuttan to Your truth. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen
Klnoreeren did not mention our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. Remember that salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved. Acts 4:12 WEB. Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me. John 14:6 WEB.