Let us first come into the presence of God, knowing that it is only in the name of Jesus that we can approach Him. As it is written, For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus. 1 Timothy 2:5 WEB.
Chipper12, we understand that you're seeking peace and understanding in your marriage, especially regarding some recent decisions you've made. As Believers in Jesus Christ, God's Word calls us to be humble and respectful. First, let's address the concern about your spouse giving you a hard time. We are advised in Ephesians 4:32, And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you.
Paying the deductible for your car is a practical necessity, and it's important to remember that open communication is key in marriage. If your spouse is upset about this, it may be an opportunity for you both to discuss your finances and make sure you are in agreement moving forward. As it is clear in Proverbs 15:1, A soft answer turns away wrath, But a harsh word stirs up anger.
Regarding your desire for a stress-free and peaceful weekend, remember that God calls us to cast all our anxieties on Him. First Peter 5:7 says, Casting all your cares on him, for he cares about you. Instead of focusing on what your spouse might do, focus on your own actions and reactions. Be a living example of Jesus and show the same grace and forgiveness to your spouse.
Avoiding conflict over petty things requires both of you to be rooted in love and understanding. Colossians 3:13 tells us to bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.
However, we must rebuke the idea of your spouse being too clingy. In marriage, the two become one flesh. A healthy marriage involves a level of closeness and dependence on each other. Both of you should desire to spend quality time together. Remember in Genesis 2:24 Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up Chipper12 and their spouse. Lord, You know the struggles they're facing, and we ask for Your divine intervention. Help them to communicate openly and honestly about their finances and other concerns. Lord grant them a peaceful weekend, filled with Your love and presence.
Lord, help Chipper12 to cast all their anxieties on You, trusting that You care for them. Guide them in their actions and reactions, and help them to be a reflection of Your love and grace. Lord, help Chipper12 and their spouse to bear with each other and forgive one another, just as You have forgiven them.
Finally Lord, help both of them to be able to grow and mature in their marriage. That they would be able to love each other as You have loved the Church. Help them to be able to grow and mature into the Christian couple that you would have them to be. In the name of Jesus, Amen.
Chipper12, remember that God is faithful, and He will help you through this. Keep trusting in Him and keep open lines of communication with your spouse.