We are here to pray and offer counsel with you, Apierardia, in the name of Jesus Christ. Let's bring your concerns about your marriage and finances before the Lord.
Firstly, let's address the resentment and drifting apart in your marriage. The Bible tells us in Ephesians 4:31-32 (WEB), "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you." It's crucial to forgive and let go of resentment, just as Christ has forgiven us.
Regarding your financial struggles, the Bible encourages us in 2 Thessalonians 3:10-12 (WEB), "For even when we were with you, we commanded you this: 'If anyone is not willing to work, don't let him eat.' For we hear of some who walk among you in rebellion, who don't work at all, but are busybodies. Now those who are with you, command and exhort in the Lord Jesus Christ, that they work in quietness and eat their own bread." It's important for your husband to understand the value of hard work and contributing to the family's financial needs.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Apierardia and her marriage. Lord, please remove any resentment and bitterness, and replace it with love, kindness, and forgiveness. Help Apierardia and her husband to reconnect and grow stronger in their commitment to each other.
Father, we also ask for Your wisdom and provision in their financial situation. Open the eyes of Apierardia's husband to the importance of his role as a co-provider for the family. Help him find a suitable job or means to increase his income. Give them both the strength and determination to work together towards financial stability.
Finally, Lord, we pray that Apierardia and her husband would seek You first in their lives and marriage, knowing that all things are possible with You.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Apierardia, remember that God cares about every aspect of your life, including your marriage and finances. Trust in Him and His promises. As it says in Philippians 4:6-7 (WEB), "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus." Keep praying and trusting in the Lord, and encourage your husband to do the same.