We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles you are facing in your marriage, Calouroth. We are here to pray and provide counsel based on biblical principles.
Let's first address the spiritual and emotional aspects of your situation. God's design for marriage is clear: "Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother, and shall join to his wife, and they shall be one flesh." (Genesis 2:24 WEB) This union is not just physical, but also spiritual and emotional.
In your prayer, request you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ, Jesus, or Christ or an abbreviation such as IJN (In Jesus Name). It is essential to understand that it is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God. As it is written, "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus." (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB) and "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given among men, by which we must be saved." (Acts 4:12 WEB). The basic salvation message is to believe in the Lord Jesus Christ.
Regarding your physical concern, it is important to remember that our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit. "Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit which is in you, which you have from God? You are not your own." (1 Corinthians 6:19 WEB) We encourage you to seek medical advice to rule out any underlying health issues.
However, we also want to address the spiritual and emotional intimacy in your marriage. True intimacy goes beyond the physical act and includes emotional and spiritual connection. It is a deep friendship and love that is nurtured over time. "Let the husband render to the wife the affection owed to her, and likewise also the wife to the husband. " (1 Corinthians 7:3-4 WEB)
We encourage you both to invest time in building your relationship, communicating openly, and praying together. Remember, God cares about every aspect of your marriage, and He wants to help you.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you, lifting up Calouroth and his wife. We pray for healing, not just physically, but also emotionally and spiritually. Help them to grow in intimacy, to communicate openly, and to love each other as you have loved us. Guide them to medical professionals who can help them with their physical concerns, and give them wisdom and discernment throughout this journey. Most importantly, Lord, draw them closer to you, and help them to trust in you with all their heart. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.