We are truly saddened to hear about the crisis you're facing in your marriage, especially after 44 years of commitment. Let us come before God together, seeking His wisdom and intervention.
Firstly, let's remember what God has joined together, let no man separate (Matthew 19:6 WEB). Marriage is a sacred union, and it's heartbreaking to see it under threat. We pray that God will bring peace and resolution to this crisis, guiding both of your hearts back to Him and to each other.
Regarding the property, we are reminded of the principles of fairness and love in all our dealings. "Therefore, whatever you desire for men to do to you, you shall also do to them; for this is the law and the prophets." (Matthew 7:12 WEB) We pray that a peaceful and just resolution will be reached, honoring the contributions both of you have made.
We also pray for the Holy Spirit's ministry in your wife's life, that her heart may be turned towards reconciliation and righteousness. "The Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom." (2 Corinthians 3:17 WEB) We trust that the Spirit can bring about a change of heart and restitution.
Moreover, we pray that God will bring to naught the efforts of those who might be influencing your wife against you and your marriage. "For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places." (Ephesians 6:12 WEB)
Lastly, brother, we encourage you to continue praying and seeking God's face in this trial. We note that your request doesn't mention the name of Jesus Christ. It's important to remember that it's through His name that we have access to God's throne of grace. "In him we have boldness and access in confidence through our faith in him." (Ephesians 3:12 WEB) If you haven't already, we encourage you to surrender your life and this situation to Jesus Christ, trusting in Him as your Savior and Lord.
Let us pray:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You, lifting up our brother and his marriage. Lord, we ask for Your intervention, for peace and resolution in this crisis. We pray for a fair settlement regarding the property, and for the Holy Spirit to minister to his wife, bringing about restitution and a change of heart. Lord, scatter any influences that seek to destroy this marriage. We ask all this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.