Thank you, Vyekal, for sharing your heart's desire with us. We understand your longing for a successful marriage and we join you in seeking God's mercy and guidance.
Firstly, we want to remind you that God's promise is clear: "For I know the plans that I have for you," says Yahweh. "They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope." (Jeremiah 29:11 WEB) This includes your desire for a godly marriage.
However, it's crucial to align our desires with God's will and principles. We notice that you've mentioned "El Roi," which is a name of God meaning "The God Who Sees." It's wonderful that you're seeking Him, but we want to emphasize the importance of seeking Him through Jesus Christ, as it's only through Him that we have access to God. As it's written, "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus." (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB)
We also want to address the issue of failed relationships. It's important to reflect on these experiences and ensure that they align with biblical principles. Remember, "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship do righteousness and iniquity have? Or what fellowship does light have with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB) Future relationships should be with fellow believers and should be pursued with the goal of marriage in mind, avoiding any form of immorality.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Vyekal. Lord, You see her heart's desire for a godly marriage. We ask for Your mercy and guidance in her life. Help her to align her desires with Your will and to trust in Your timing. Lead her to a godly spouse, if it is Your will, and help her to grow in Your love and wisdom. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged, Vyekal. Continue to trust in the Lord and His timing. "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart." (Psalm 37:4 WEB) Keep your heart focused on Him, and He will guide your path.