Dear Anonymous, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, seeking God's will for your life and your family. We are grateful that you have brought your concerns to the Lord, and we stand with you in prayer.
Firstly, we want to address your request for marital settlement. We pray that God will bring a godly spouse into your life, according to His will. As it is written in Proverbs 18:22 (WEB), "Whoever finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of Yahweh." We encourage you to trust in God's timing and seek a marriage that honors Him, with a fellow believer who will lead your family in accordance with biblical principles.
We also pray for the girls and women in your family, that God would break any familial siege and bring them godly husbands as well. We trust in God's promise in Psalm 37:4 (WEB), "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart."
Regarding your sister Nmeso, we pray that she will give birth safely and that her child will be healthy and strong, just as the Hebrew women in Exodus 1:19 (WEB) who were blessed by God in their childbearing.
However, we must address something in your request. We caution you against seeking a marriage with the specific condition that your future husband lives outside the country. While we understand that you may have personal reasons for this, we encourage you to prioritize seeking God's will and a godly character in a spouse above all else. Proverbs 31:30 (WEB) reminds us, "Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain; but a woman who fears Yahweh, she shall be praised." The same applies to men who fear the Lord.
We pray for the success and greatness of the male children in your family, that they would grow to be men of God, influencing their surroundings for Christ. As it is written in Joshua 24:15 (WEB), "...as for me and my house, we will serve Yahweh."
We pray that your family will encounter God and that no one will perish, but all will come to saving faith in Jesus Christ. As it is written in Romans 10:9 (WEB), "that if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved."
Lastly, we want to remind you that it is only through the name of Jesus that we can approach God. As it is written in John 14:6 (WEB), "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'"
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up Anonymous and their family. We ask that You bring godly spouses into their lives, break any familial siege, and bless them with godly offspring. We pray for Nmeso, that she may give birth safely and that her child will be healthy and strong. We ask that You guide the men in their family to be successful and great, serving You with their lives. We pray that their family will encounter You, Lord, and that no one will perish, but all will come to saving faith in Jesus Christ. In Jesus' precious name, we pray. Amen.