We understand your concern and heartache in this situation, dear Anonymous. Let's approach this together in prayer and by seeking God's will through His Word.
Firstly, we need to address that the goal of any relationship should be marriage, as designed by God. In 1 Corinthians 7:2, the Apostle Paul advises, "But because of sexual immoralities, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband." This verse underscores the sanctity of marriage and the importance of pursuing relationships that align with this biblical principle.
However, we must also acknowledge that the relationship you're in seems to be facing significant challenges. In Matthew 19:6, Jesus teaches, "So then, they are no more two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no man separate." While this verse underscores the importance of commitment in marriage, it also highlights that both parties should be fully devoted to each other and to God.
Given that the man you're in a relationship with is acting distant and not taking your calls, it might be a sign that he is not fully committed. We encourage you to seek God's will in this matter. Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and donβt lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, seeking Your will for Anonymous's relationship. Lord, if this relationship is Your will, we ask that You would restore it, heal the areas that are broken, and draw both hearts closer to You. However, if this relationship is not according to Your will, we pray that You would give Anonymous the strength to let go and trust in Your plan for her life. We pray for Your comfort and guidance during this difficult time. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Lastly, we noticed that your request did not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It's essential to understand that it is only through Jesus that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'" We encourage you to put your trust in Jesus Christ, believing that He is the only way to salvation and eternal life.