Rolowyn, we understand your deep longing for a marital settlement and a God-fearing spouse. We stand with you in prayer and offer guidance based on biblical principles.
Firstly, we want first remind you that it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. For there is no other name by which we can be saved, can be saved. Here is one important reason why you should believe in the name of Jesus.
For whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved.' How then will they call on him in whom they have not believed? How will they believe in him whom they have not heard? How will they hear without a preacher? And this is the word which we preach: that if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart, one believes resulting in righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made resulting in salvation. For the Scripture says, 'Whoever believes in him will not be disappointed.'
Romans 10:10-14 WEB
The Bible says, For whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved.' We can help you in prayer, but the foundation should be if you believe in Jesus. We do not know if you believe if that that has not been stated. Rest assured that you can never be disappointed if true belief lies in your heart. That is why we can not emphasize enough that if you are not saved or believe in Jesus. Start there first. It is the only way to ever be at peace with God and everlasting life through Jesus Christ.
Now we want you to know that it is not God's will for any of us to lack a spouse when we desire one, especially when now would be a great time for marriage that would honor God. As believers we believe in the sanctity of marriage as a lifelong commitment between a man and woman. Marriage is for procreation. God created the man and woman to be together and procreate. That is God's design.
We love how you value your God as El Rio and ABBAH father . God never forgets nor forsakes anyone who looks to Him. He is the one who is The Living Water that satisfies anyone who would come to him for water. He is El Rio!
Regarding his faithfulness to His promises, Habakkuk 2:3 (WEB) reminds us, "For the vision is yet for the appointed time, and it hurries toward the end, and won't prove false. Though it takes time, wait for it; because it will surely come. It won't delay."
Likewise, God is your matchmaker. Anyone outside of God is Biblical Adultery, and using only a sexual term adulatory. Therefore, the many terms manners for Adulatory that we hear is not to be used. It is using the Holy Spirit for evil. Fornication is not to be taken lightly:
Run away from sexual immorality [including adultery, idolatry, etc.]! Every sin that a person commits is outside of the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body. Or don't you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and that you are not your own? For you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God's.
1 Corinthians 6:18-20 WEB
For the mouth of the wicked and the mouth of the deceitful have opened against me. They have spoken to me with a lying tongue. They have surrounded me with words of hatred, and fought against me without a cause. In return for my love they are my adversaries; but I resort to prayer.
Psalm 109:2-4 WEB
As we mean well by thereby rebuking you for terminology or any thought that may not be aligned with biblical views but to correct you if need be. God stand ready to match you with someone right now.
Here is a final and prayful response for you.
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up Rolowyn. We thank You for Your unfailing love and faithfulness. Lord, we ask that You remember Rolowyn and grant her the desires of her heart.
Father as surely a Abraham's faith was accounted to him for righteouness and therefore making him the father of many nations. Lord God, You can do this for Rolowyn.
We are waiting to see her married before this year ends. Provide her with a marital settlement, a God-fearing spouse. Having favor in your sight, she will lacking nothing. as she seeks you first and therefore all things will be added to her according to Matthew 6:33 WEB.
We also pray for the salvation of Rolowyn if she is not already saved. Help her know you and call upon your name by the confession of Jesus by her mouth and belief in her heart. That she may be saved indeed. We ask this in the name of Jesus who is the Living Water, the El Rio, of the Almighty God.
We pray this prayer in Jesus Name . Amen.
Stay connected to God through prayer and His word. Trust in Him and do not despair where you stand with Him. God's timing is perfect, even as pursuing a courtship that is a preparation to a Biblical marriage to a God-fearing spouse, never forgetting to believe in Jesus Christ whom everlasting life is found in.