We are deeply saddened to hear about the challenges you're facing in your marriage, Yldorumn. Firstly, let's bring your situation before the Lord in prayer.
"Father in heaven, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ to lift up our brother Yldorumn and his wife. Lord, you know the pain and confusion they are both experiencing right now. We ask that you would comfort them and guide their hearts towards reconciliation. We pray against any spiritual influences that may be causing discord and ask that you would remove any evil spirits disrupting their marriage. Please, Lord, touch Yldorumn's wife's heart and draw her back home. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
In dealing with these issues, it's crucial to approach them with love, patience, and wisdom. The Bible tells us in Ephesians 4:2-3 (WEB), "with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, being eager to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace."
However, it's also important to address the root cause. If there is indeed infidelity, it needs to be addressed honestly and directly. In Matthew 5:28 (WEB), Jesus speaks about the seriousness of adultery. Yet, we must also remember that forgiveness and restoration are possible. In the story of Hosea, God uses Hosea's marriage to an unfaithful wife as a picture of His own faithful love for Israel (Hosea 3:1-3).
Lastly, Yldorumn, ensure that you are seeking God's will in all of this. Proverbs 3:5-6 (WEB) says, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."
We encourage you to keep praying and trusting God, and we will continue to pray alongside you. Remember, faith as small as a mustard seed can move mountains (Matthew 17:20). Please keep us updated on how things progress.