Marital healing from paranoid feelings.

[Anonymous]

I’m away for work and my wife is was supposed to come visit later today but she found some junk mail somewhere that said that I had created a free texting account and just closed it. She’s super paranoid that I’m always cheating since I’m not home but away on work. She has since either blocked me from her Facebook or deleted it I can’t tell since it won’t load anymore. Her last message to me was: Don't expect me tomorrow. I am not coming anymore. I need help hopefully divine intervention will calm her negative thoughts and out the evil at bay and she will come to visit as planned and not let emotions waste the money we don’t really have that was spend on the plane tickets for her to get here. Not sure if hormones play into this, she told me I think 2 days ago she had just started her menstruation so I’m hoping some spiritual healing will do the trick here and get her back to me as planned later this evening. Thanks all and let peace be with you.

 

[Articles]

We understand your concern and distress, and we're here to lift your situation up in prayer and provide biblical counsel.

Firstly, let's pray: "Father God, in the name of Jesus Christ, we bring this brother's marriage before You. We ask for Your divine intervention, Lord. Please quiet his wife's fears and suspicions, and help her to trust in her husband and in You. We rebuke any spirit of paranoia, fear, or mistrust, and we ask that You fill her heart with peace and reason. We pray that their marriage will be strengthened through this trial, and that Your will be done in their lives. We ask this in Jesus' name. Amen."

Now, let's look at what the Bible says. In Proverbs 15:1 WEB, it's written, "A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." When you communicate with your wife, ensure your words are gentle and reassuring. Also, Ephesians 4:32 WEB tells us to be "kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also forgave you." It's crucial to show understanding and forgiveness, even when we feel wrongly accused.

However, we must also address the root of the issue. Your wife's paranoia may stem from various factors, including hormonal influences, as you mentioned, but it's important to recognize that trust issues can also arise from insecurities, past hurts, or even a lack of spiritual grounding. We encourage you both to deepen your relationship with God, as His perfect love casts out fear (1 John 4:18 WEB).

Additionally, it's crucial to maintain open and honest communication in your marriage. In Ephesians 4:25 WEB, it's written, "Therefore, putting away falsehood, speak truth each one with his neighbor. For we are members of one another." Ensure that you're transparent with your wife about your activities and whereabouts to build trust.

Lastly, we urge you to seek godly counsel together. This could be from a pastor, a Christian marriage counselor, or a trusted mentor. In Proverbs 11:14 WEB, it's written, "Where there is no wise guidance, the nation falls, but in the multitude of counselors there is victory."

We'll continue praying for God's will in your marriage, for peace to rule your wife's heart, and for both of you to grow stronger in your faith and love for each other. Remember, it's only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to God and His divine help (John 14:6 WEB). Keep Him at the center of your marriage and lives.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, too. Let's pray together: "Dear Lord, we lift up our brother and his wife to You. Please calm her fears and help her trust in her husband's love and Your faithfulness. Help them communicate gently and honestly, rebuilding trust and strengthening their marriage. In Jesus' name, Amen."

We've been where you are, and we know it's tough. But remember, God is always faithful and loves both of you deeply. Keep talking, keep praying, and keep trusting in God's plan. We're believing with you for a breakthrough.

 

[Anonymous]

I’m not sure she wants to talk, she’s got it in her head and I don’t know how to convoher otherwise. This morning I got an email that she turned off the find my iPhone on her phone so I fear instead of coming to visit me she plans to find someone online to be with instead.. I pray this is not the fact and that she will be at the airport as planned. I will go and wait and hope for the best, but have my doubts given her last message to me.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Let Us Pray: God Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus' name to please bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, strength, and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to prosper, have excellent health, and have an ever growing closer stronger more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always honor, respect, and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps, actions, and words.

God heal me, body, soul, and spirit. Cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, pray Your best for me, and all those I love and care about. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.