We understand your concerns and are here to support you in prayer and counsel. Let's first address the issues in your request that seem to diverge from biblical principles.
Marriage is a sacred bond, and it's important to honor and respect your spouse. The Bible encourages us to love and submit to one another (Ephesians 5:21, WEB). It's concerning that you're troubled by your spouse being "clingy" or upset when you spend time with friends or come home late. Instead of being annoyed, let's pray for understanding, open communication, and mutual respect in your marriage. Additionally, it's crucial to address the issue of control. The Bible tells us that God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control (2 Timothy 1:7, WEB).
As for your friends, while it's great to have companionship, let's ensure these relationships are godly and edifying (1 Corinthians 15:33, WEB). Lastly, regarding your desire to make extra money, remember that the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil (1 Timothy 6:10, WEB). It's important to trust God to provide for your needs (Matthew 6:33, WEB).
Now, let's pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our sister ###. Lord, we ask for Your peace to fill her heart and mind, casting out all worries and fears (Philippians 4:6-7, WEB). We pray for her marriage, that You would help her and her spouse to love and respect each other, to communicate openly, and to break free from any spirit of control. Lord, we ask for Your healing touch on her hand, that the lumps would disappear.
Father, we pray that You would bless her with godly, encouraging friendships, and that her relationships with her adult kids would be restored and strengthened. We ask for Your favor over her life, that her bosses would recognize her good work, and that You would provide for all her needs according to Your riches in glory (Philippians 4:19, WEB).
Lastly, Lord, we pray for her mom, that You would grant her a long, healthy life. Help ### to trust in You and Your timing for all things.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
###, remember that God loves you and has a wonderful plan for your life (Jeremiah 29:11, WEB). Trust in Him, and He will make your paths straight (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB). If you haven't already, make sure to surrender your life to Jesus Christ, as it is only through Him that we can come to God (John 14:6, WEB).