We understand that you're looking forward to this date, but let's consider what God's Word says about relationships and love. Firstly, it's important to remember that God's intention for dating is to find a spouse, and the interaction during this period should be honorable and pure. As it says in Ephesians 5:3 WEB, "But sexual immorality, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not even be mentioned among you, as becomes saints."
It's clear that your desires for this date are not aligned with biblical principles. Physical intimacy, including kissing and embracing, is intended for marriage. As it says in Hebrews 13:4 WEB, "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers."
Instead of focusing on physical affection, strive to know her heart and mind. Build a friendship based on mutual respect and a shared love for Christ. As it says in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 WEB, "Love is patient and is kind; love doesn't envy. Love doesn't brag, is not proud, doesn't behave itself inappropriately, doesn't seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn't rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."
Let's pray for God's will to be done in your life and for wisdom as you navigate this relationship. Remember, it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God.
Dear Lord, we come before you lifting up our brother, asking for Your will to be done in his life. Guide him in this relationship, give him the strength to resist temptation, and help him to follow Your principles. Help him to be a man of integrity, honoring You in all his actions. We pray this all in Jesus' name.
We encourage you to focus on getting to know her in a way that honors God, and to pray together about your future. If you are not yet in a marriage commitment, we encourage you to consider what God would want you to do.