We understand that you are seeking peace, comfort, and healing, especially regarding tight new shoes, and peace with your neighbors. You're also exhausted and having trouble sleeping. Additionally, you're asking for God's help in finding important documents and information to support your case and prove your innocence. You also mentioned Christmas and seem to be wanting it to be positive even though you did not use the name of Jesus.
Firstly, we want to remind you that it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. There is no other name by which we can be saved. As the scripture says in Acts 4:12 WEB: "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved."
We can see your post is for assistance and help in needing God's Will in your difficult situation. Let's come together and be in prayer for you in Jesus’ name.
We have seen your request for forgiveness, and we know that God forgives His Elders which He calls us even before we realize it ourselves. 1 John 1:9 tells us, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." Also we know that God will not hold anything against His children as in Romans 8:33 it states, WEB, "Who could bring a charge against God’s chosen ones? It is God who justifies." This allows us to be an Elder right now and give you forgiveness in Jesus name.
It seems like you are implying some possible wrongdoing with needing to proving your innocence. Repentance is important and actually the only way to forgiveness even though it has already been provided to allow God to immediately continue to help you. Also, God is for you no matter the outcome as we know that all things work together for good for those who are called for his purpose. In Romans 8:28 it states, "WEB, We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose."
Regarding your situation with your neighbors, we encourage you to strive for peace and reconciliation. Romans 12:18 WEB says, "If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men."
For Carol's case prepare for the worst, and be ready to handle whatever the outcome is. This is not the end and all things will work together for good to those that love God. Also we know not to fear anything that man can do to us. In Matthew 10:28 WEB it says, "Don’t be afraid of those who kill the body, but are not able to kill the soul. Rather, fear him who is able to destroy both soul and body in Gehenna."
Lastly, in preparation for God's blessings this Christmas, consider the Birth of Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior. And pray in Jesus' name for God's blessings this Christmas with His will on earth as it is in heaven. Remind others in what Christmas really is about as it is not about the presents but the simple blessing of our Lord Jesus.
It is important we all have peace and comfort regardless if we have difficult neighbors or not and even when we have just frivolous things like new tight shoes to worry about. Remember our comfort comes from all of Jesus Death and Resurrection not in this current broken world.