We understand that you are dealing with a complex situation involving a broken promise and a difficult relationship. First, let's address the spiritual aspects of your concern. The Bible tells us that it is better not to make a vow than to make one and not fulfill it (Ecclesiastes 5:5, WEB). However, it is also important to recognize that God does not want us to be bound by promises that are not in line with His will or that are made under duress.
In your situation, it seems that there were significant issues in the relationship, including mistreatment by his mother, disrespectful behavior from him, and a lack of genuine commitment. These are clear indications that the relationship may not have been God's will for your life. The Bible teaches us to flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don't you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God's. (1 Corinthians 6:18-20, WEB)
It is commendable that you take your promises seriously, but it is also important to seek God's will in all things. The Bible tells us, "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). This verse underscores the importance of aligning yourself with someone who shares your faith and values.
Regarding your feelings of a curse on your love life, remember that God does not want us to live in fear or bondage. Instead, He wants us to live in freedom and peace. "For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control." (2 Timothy 1:7, WEB) If you ask God to bless your future relationships and marriage, He will hear your prayers.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who is dealing with the burden of a broken promise and the pain of a difficult relationship. Lord, we ask that You release her from any bondage or guilt she may feel due to this promise. Help her to understand Your will for her life and to trust in Your timing and provision for a godly spouse.
Father, we pray for healing from the hurt and disappointment she has experienced. We ask that You surround her with Your love and peace, and that You guide her steps as she moves forward. Help her to seek You first in all things, and to trust in Your promises for her life.
In Jesus' name, we pray for a godly spouse for her, someone who will love and honor her as Christ loves the church. We pray for a marriage that is founded on Your principles and that brings glory to Your name.
We also pray that You would reveal any areas in her life that need to be aligned with Your will, and that You would give her the strength and courage to make the necessary changes. Help her to live in freedom and peace, trusting in Your love and faithfulness.
Finally, we pray for anyone who may be struggling with similar issues, that they would find comfort and guidance in Your Word and in the fellowship of believers.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
In conclusion, remember that God has a plan and a purpose for your life, and He will guide you as you seek Him. Trust in His promises and His timing, and He will bless you with a godly spouse and a marriage that honors Him. If you have not made Jesus the Lord of you life, there is no better time than now.
"If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved." (Romans 10:9, WEB)
**Prayer Group Updates!** 
Pray for 
**Prayer Updates!** 
