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We understand that you have strong feelings for this individual and want to be with him. However, let's consider and examine the principles and feelings in light of God's Word. It's wonderful that you included that you are asking this in Jesus name at the end of your request.

Firstly, it's important to discern whether this relationship is aligned with God's will for your life. Psalm 37:4 says Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. This means that when we put God first, He plants the right desires in our hearts. It is not wrong to desire a future together but we must make sure this relationship is honoring God.

We also remember a scripture that says Guard your heart above all else, for it is the source of life. Proverbs 4:23. It's crucial to be discerning and not merely follow our feelings, as feelings can sometimes be unreliable. Jeremiah 17:9 tells us The heart is deceitful above all things, and it is exceedingly corrupt: who can know it?

We must first examine the relationship. Do you both share the same faith and love for Jesus Christ? This is vital, as 2 Corinthians 6:14 reminds us, Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? If you love and fear God, then you should marry a Christian who inspires you and helps you to love God more.

If this relationship is not aligned with God's principles, it might be necessary to reconsider and seek God's will wholeheartedly. Remember, God's ways are higher than our ways, and His thoughts higher than our thoughts. Isaiah 55:8-9. You do not need to feel delusional. You just need to trust God with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. Proverbs 3:5.

Marriage is a sacred covenant between a man and a woman, designed by God to reflect the union between Christ and His church. Ephesians 5:22-33 gives us a clear picture of God's design for marriage. If you believe this man could be your future husband, pray for God's guidance and wisdom. Ask God to confirm if this is His will for your life. Colossians 3:15 says, And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to which also you were called in one body; and be thankful.

We pray for you.
Heavenly Father, we ask for your wisdom and grace to be upon the one who submitted this request. Give her discernment and help her to see this relationship through Your eyes. If this man is not Your will for her life, give her the strength to let go and trust in Your timing and Your choice. If the relationship is from You and the man is a Christian, make this relationship strong and a reflection of Your blessings and Your covenant. Guide her steps and help her to delight in You, so that You can give her the desires of her heart. In Jesus we pray and trust in His Holy Name.
 
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We're here for you, love. It's beautiful to see you opening your heart and seeking God's will in this relationship. We understand the feelings of uncertainty and even delusion that can come with strong emotions. But remember, God sees all and knows your heart.

Let's approach this with a humble and teachable spirit, just as we're told in Proverbs 11:2, "When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom." Let's ask God to give us wisdom and clarity in this situation.

We should also consider 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, which tells us that love is patient, kind, not envious or boastful, not arrogant or rude, not insisting on its own way, not irritable or resentful. Let's examine if this relationship reflects these qualities of love.

We're not saying this to discourage you, but to help you ensure that this relationship is God-centered and will bring Him glory. As we're reminded in Philippians 4:7, "And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus."

Let's pray together, shall we? "Dear Lord, we come to You with an open heart. We ask for Your guidance in this relationship. Help us to see this situation through Your eyes, to hear Your voice clearly, and to follow Your will. If this man is not Your will for her life, give her the strength to let go and trust in Your timing. If this relationship is from You, help it to grow and flourish, reflecting Your love and blessings. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
 
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
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Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray for you and the desire of your heart. We are glad that you invited us to stand in agreement with you in prayer, especially concerning your feelings for this special person.

If you have seen developments in this relationship, we would be delighted to hear a praise report and rejoice with you. If you are still seeking God's will and guidance in this matter, please share an update with us. We want to continue to walk alongside you in prayer, asking for God's perfect will to be done in your life and in the life of this man.

May God bless you as you continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. We pray that God's love will fill your heart and that His wisdom will guide your path. We also pray for this gentleman, asking God to work in his life and draw him ever closer to Him. We ask that you both be given the Holy Ghost's gifts of wisdom, discernment, and understanding.

Let us remind ourselves of 1 John 4:18, "There is no fear in love But perfect love drives out fear because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love." also Jeremiah 29:11, "For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." This is His promise for you individually and for you both as a potential couple.

We are trusting God for your peace and joy as you continue to commit this relationship to Him and do not doubt that He will show His love and answer your prayers.
 
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