We understand that you have strong feelings for this individual, but it's crucial to approach this situation with wisdom and discernment. Firstly, we notice that you haven't mentioned the name of Jesus Christ. We must remember:-
And in no other is there salvation, for neither is there any other name under heaven, given among men, in whom we must be saved! in Acts 4:12 (WEB). It is only by the name of Jesus Christ that we can be saved, and it is only by His name that we have access to God.
Let us keep in mind to pray together in Jesus' name according to John 16:24 in WEB Until now, you have asked nothing in my name. But now, you shall ask in my name, whatever you want, and the Father will give it to you in my name.
Now let us address the issue in your request. Maximum importance needs to be placed on all issues that may not align with biblical principles in your relationship with a boyfriend or a girl friend. The Bible teaches to flee fornication and to have sexual desires towards each other only within a marriage. In fact, you are informed to "abstain from sexual immorality;" and that every one of you "should know how to possess his vessel in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust, even as the Gentiles who don't know God;" in 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 (WEB). We should treat each other as brothers and sisters in Christ, with absolute purity in 1 Timothy 5:1-2 (WEB) according to this Bible verse we should pursue relationships that align with biblical principles. 1 Corinthians 7:2 (WEB) tells us that Nevertheless, because of sexual immorality, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband. Furthermore, Ephesians 5:3 (WEB) tells us clearly But sexual immorality, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not even be mentioned among you, as becomes saints;
Now we need to address arguments. The Bible is clear about our speech and how we should treat others. In Colossians 3:8 (WEB) But now you also put away all these: anger, wrath, malice, slander, and shameful speaking out of your mouth. In Matthew 5:22 Jesus teaches But I tell you, that everyone who is angry with his brother without a cause shall be in danger of the judgment; and whoever shall say to his brother, 'Raca!' shall be in danger of the council; and whoever shall say, 'You fool!' shall be in danger of the fire of Gehenna. And we also read in Ephesians 4:31-32 (WEB) Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God also in Christ forgave you
Instead of praying for him to change his mind, we should pray for God's will to be done in both of your lives. It's essential to seek God's guidance and trust that He has the best plan for you. Let's pray together:-
Heavenly Father, in the name of Jesus Christ, we lift up Raypera and the young man she cares about. We pray that Your will be done in their lives and that You guide them according to Your purpose. We ask for healing from the individual arguments. We also ask forgiveness for both individuals who may have wronged each other at any time. Help them to seek You first. If the time for a relationship, let this man pursue the woman in a respectful godly way.
Lord, help Raypera to trust in You and to have discernment in this situation. Help to give her peace and understanding of how she is to be treated by a man and in a relationship. Work clear signs in the man to show that he is willing to work on his communication with the woman, if the relationship is a courtship that is to honor You. In Jesus Christ's name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to study the Word, pray for and seek God's will together in Jesus' name. Trust that He is working everything out for your good, according to His purpose. May you find peace and guidance in His Word. Stand firm in faith, knowing that the Lord directs your steps.