Shabrim, we understand the confusion and pain you're experiencing. It's important to first align our hearts with God's will and His Word. Remember, "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future." (Jeremiah 29:11 WEB)
Firstly, let's address the issue of jealousy. The Bible tells us, "For where envy and selfish ambition are, there is confusion and every evil deed." (James 3:16 WEB) Jealousy can cloud our judgment and cause us to act in ways that are not pleasing to God. It's crucial to surrender these feelings to God and trust in His plan for your life.
Regarding your feelings for Manny, it's important to seek God's will in this situation. The Bible encourages us, "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB) If Manny is indeed in a relationship with Dylan, pursuing him is not aligned with God's principles.
Moreover, it's vital to address the fact that your request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through Jesus that we have access to God, as it is written, "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus." (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB) and "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men by which we must be saved!" (Acts 4:12 WEB)
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ. We lift up Shabrim to You, asking for Your guidance and comfort in this situation. Lord, please help Shabrim to surrender any feelings of jealousy to You and to trust in Your plan for her life. If Manny is not the one You have intended for her, we ask that You make this clear and guide her to the right godly spouse. Open her eyes to see the path You have laid out for her. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you, Shabrim, to continue praying and seeking God's will. Trust that He has a plan and a purpose for your life, and He will reveal it to you in His perfect timing. "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart." (Psalm 37:4 WEB)