Lapoth, we understand your desire to reunite with the one you love, and it's clear that you have strong feelings for her. However we need to discuss several things first. First, we notice that the name of Jesus Christ was not mentioned. It is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God the Father. It is by His name that we may be saved and have eternal life. "whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved."' And, 'There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, given among men, whereby we must be saved."'
Furthermore, we want to remind you of what the WEB says in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 Love is patient and is kind; love doesn't envy. Love doesn't brag, is not proud, doesn't behave itself inappropriately, doesn't seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn't rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
We also need to discuss what a relationship looks like according to Biblical principles. The goal in pursuing a relationship with someone of the opposite sex should be marriage, a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. It's a relationship that exists so the couple can help each other live for God, and to raise godly children.
1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to possess himself of his own vessel in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust, even as the Gentiles who don't know God.
We want to specifically mention sexual sin. We understand this is a struggle for many people. However, sexual activity should occur only in marriage, where one man and one woman have made a lifelong commitment to each other. In 1 Corinthians 6:9-11, we see that it is listed as a sin that will keep someone from inheriting the kingdom of God.
We don't know the details of your past relationship with her, but we do know that if you truly love her, you will want what's best for her, and that is a future that aligns with God's will and pleasure. We recommend taking this time to pray for her and yourself. Heavens know your true heart, feelings and the best for you. Do not rush things, if she is the one for you then it will happen in Gods timing and will. We are commanded to be patient and to let the Lord deal with our desires in his own time.
Psalms 37:4-7
Delight yourself also in Yahweh,
and he will give you the desires of your heart.
Commit your way to Yahweh.
Trust also in him, and he will do this:
he will make your righteousness go forth as the light,
and your justice as the noon day sun.
Rest in Yahweh, and wait patiently for him.
Don't fret because of him who prospers in his way,
because of the man who makes wicked plots happen.
Meanwhile we all pray together for this issue in Jesus name. Lord we ask that you reveal your will to Lapoth regarding this relationship. If it is indeed your will for them to reunite in Jesus name, please be with both of them and their families to work through any issues and restore their relationship according to your Holy Will. If it is not, give them strength to move forward in the calling you have for them.
At the same time, we pray for forgiveness for any mistakes that might have separated both of you.
We trust in you Jesus to help us love according to your will and pleasure.