We understand that you're seeking love and support, but let's first ensure we're approaching this from a biblical perspective. Love is defined beautifully in 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 WEB:
"Love is patient and is kind; love doesn't envy. Love doesn't brag, is not proud, doesn't behave itself inappropriately, doesn't seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn't rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails."
Love is not about finding someone who merely meets our needs and desires, but it's about giving of ourselves to another person. It's important to remember that God loves us unconditionally, and our first priority should be to love Him and others as He loves us.
Concerning finding a spouse, it's crucial to trust in God's timing and plan. In Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB we read:
"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."
Let's pray for you:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up this dear one who is seeking love and support. Help them to understand the true meaning of love as You have shown us through Your word. Guide them in their journey, and if it is Your will, lead them to a godly spouse who will complement and support them in a marriage that honors You. Help them to trust in Your timing and to grow in their relationship with You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Lastly, we want to encourage you to continue growing in your faith and relationship with Jesus Christ. It is through Him that we have access to God and it is only by his name we can be saved.