Dyrwach, we understand your concern and heartache, and we are here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance. First, we want to acknowledge your love for Owen and your desire to see him change. However, it's crucial to align your desires with biblical principles.
We must remember that God's will is important, not just our own desires. God calls us to be in relationships that honor and glorify Him. It's clear that you care deeply for Owen, but it's also clear that his current behavior is causing you pain and fear. This is not God's design for a relationship.
Let God be your focus and trust Him to work in both your and Owen's lives. It's important to pray for Owen, but also to pray for God's will to be done, not just your own desires. Remember the words of Jesus in Luke 22:42 WEB:
"Father, if you are willing, remove this cup from me. Nevertheless, not my will, but yours, be done."
It's also crucial to address the fear you're experiencing. God does not give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control. This is an important aspect to pray about and ask God to help you with.
Concerning Owen's behavior, it's important to pray for him to be filled with the fruits of the Spirit, which are love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.
We must also address the issue of Owen potentially being influenced by others or even corrupt forces. It's important to pray for God's protection over him.
Regarding the changes you wish to see in Owen, remember that true change comes from God. It's not just about Owen becoming who you want him to be, but about both of you growing in Christlikeness.
As you did, end your prayer in the name of Jesus Christ. Remember, we have access to God only through Jesus. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB:
"Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'"
Let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up Dyrwach and Owen. Lord, we pray for Your will to be done in their lives and relationship. We ask for Your protection over both of them. We pray for Owen, that he would be filled with the fruits of Your Spirit, that he would be kind, caring, and loving, as You are. We pray for Your guidance in their relationship, and for Your peace and love to fill them. We ask this all in Jesus' name. Amen.