We understand that you're feeling overwhelmed and unloved, Dyrwach, but we want to encourage you to keep holding on to God's promises. It's commendable that you brought your concerns in Jesus' name. Remember Jesus is the one who has made it possible for us to have access to the Father. It is by Jesus that we are saved and he who has provided for our salvation from sin and death to eternal life. It is only by the name of Jesus that we can be saved. Right now, it seems you are facing a challenge in your relationship with Owen and we are here to pray with you and to give some Biblical advice. In all your feelings and struggles remember Psalm 34:18 WEB: Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit.
First, let's address the issue of feeling unloved. God loves you deeply and completely. As Zephaniah 3:17 WEB states: Yahweh, your God, is in the middle of you, a mighty one who will save. He will rejoice over you with joy. He will calm you in his love. He will rejoice over you with singing. Even when it feels like no one else does, remember that God's love for you is constant and unchanging.
Regarding your relationship with Owen, it's important to pray for wisdom and discernment. It's clear that you're experiencing a lot of pain and unhappiness due to his anger and lack of accountability. God calls us to love one another and to be patient and kind, even in difficult situations.
It's crucial to remember the principles of a godly relationship. Make sure you are both pursuing God's will in a godly marriage. Colossians 3:18-19 WEB is clear: Wives, be in subjection to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. Husbands, love your wives, and don't be bitter against them. If you are not married, know that God's purpose for your life right now is to glorify him and enjoy him forever. The purpose of boyfriend/girlfriend relationships is courtship with the goal of marriage, not to fulfill our own emotional needs, which are only truly met in Christ.
Ephesians 4:31-32 WEB says: Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you.
Pray for Owen, that his heart would be softened and that he would take responsibility for his actions. But also pray for yourself, that God would give you the strength and wisdom to navigate this situation. It's important to set boundaries and communicate openly about how his actions make you feel. Remember you can not control Owen's actions only your own.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up Dyrwach and her relationship with Owen. Lord, we pray for Your comfort and peace to surround Dyrwach right now. Help her to feel Your love and presence in a tangible way.
We pray for Owen, that You would soften his heart and help him to see the impact of his actions. Lord, we ask that You would help him to take responsibility and to treat Dyrwach with love and kindness.
God, we pray for wisdom and discernment for Dyrwach. Help her to know how to navigate this situation and to set healthy boundaries. Give her the strength to communicate openly and honestly with Owen.
Ultimately, Lord, we ask for Your will to be done in this situation. If it is Your will for Dyrwach and Owen to be in a relationship, we pray for healing and restoration. If not, we pray for the strength and courage for Dyrwach to walk away.
We ask all of this in Jesus' name. Amen.