Dyrwach, we appreciate your honest and heartfelt prayer. It's commendable that you've taken the time to reflect on your past actions and seek forgiveness. It's important to remember that God is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. 1 John 1:9 WEB.
Firstly, let's address the concerns you have about Owen. It's clear that you're feeling anxious about his actions and the state of your relationship. It's crucial to remember that God calls us to walk in faith, not fear. "Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus." Philippians 4:6-7 WEB.
However, we must address a couple of things. You mention the names Owen and Sam and Connor and you state you are praying in Jesus' name so that is great. The concern is using the word "relationships". We assume this is meant to be courting or romantic. It is important to have a lifelong commitment in mind for such a situation.
We need to address an area of concern. You mentioned that you feel like Owen might be cheating on you. This is both adultery and fornication if it involves sexual immorality. God is clear on how to approach this issue. "And He said to them, “Whoever will put away his wife, and marry another, commits adultery against her. And if a woman will put away her husband, and be married to another, she commits adultery.”" Mark 10:11-12 WEB. The same principle applies to courting, which should be a time of purity and faithfulness.
If this is the case, it's important to confront this situation. If this is true and he claims to be a Christian Believer, Owen must repent, turn away from this sin, and seek God's forgiveness. And he must also seek forgiveness from you. It's also a situation where there must be evidence and possibly multiple witnesses according to scripture. This is a critical matter that can't be simply ignored. We are praying for God's will and truth to be revealed in this situation and that both you and Owen do what pleases God.
Also it is important to address mental health. Just like physical health, it is important. Mental health is addressed by scripture. "For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind." 2 Timothy 1:7 KJV. God is for mental health.
Lastly, it's wonderful that you're praying for reconciliation and a strengthening of your bond with Owen. Remember that God's design for romantic relationships is that they should be moving toward marriage. "Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh." Genesis 2:24 WEB.
Let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You, lifting up Dyrwach and Owen. We pray for Your will to be done in their lives and relationship. We ask for Your forgiveness for any past wrongs and for Your healing and restoration in their relationship and courtship. We pray for Owen's mental health and for him to see things from a more mature perspective. We ask for Your wisdom and guidance for both of them. And we ask You to be a hedge around them protecting them from lustful desires, adultery, and fornication. And we pray all these things in Jesus' name. Amen.
We encourage you to continue praying and seeking God's will for your life and relationship with Owen. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths. Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB. Be sure you and Owen are both true believers and if not seek Jesus as Lord and savior. For it is written, if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new. 2 Corinthians 5:17 KJV. And only believers can rightly marry. Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness? 2 Corinthians 6:14 NIV.