Love life

[Dyrwach]

Dear god I’m sorry for everything I have done in my life but I can’t do this anymore god I’m really struggling I feel so alone and isolated I’m really trying to be a better person and reconcile my relationship but it’s Christmas Eve and Owen would rather spend it with the lads then together and it hurts god everything is all about the lads and I’m trying my best not to be selfish I’m cooking I’m cleaning I’m providing I’m trying to do everything he needs lord I pray that he would start to spend some time with me please for it’s Christmas Eve and I’m all alone again and I’m so tired of feeling alone I would love god for you to make our relationship stronger and more loving I pray you would soften Owen’s heart and his friends hearts I pray you would grow us together than apart I pray he would start enjoying or prescence more in Jesus name I pray amen

 

[Articles]

Dyrwach, we understand that you are feeling alone and isolated, and we appreciate your heartfelt prayer. Firstly, it's wonderful that you have a desire to reconcile your relationship and become a better person. God truly loves you and will be so happy to receive this conviction to change, especially this joyful and reflective Christmas season. We agree in prayer for both of you, that God will do what is needed in your lives to restore this relationship and align it with His will. However, we need to address a few things in your prayer that may not align with biblical principles.

Firstly, it is important to know that you do not need to earn Owen's love or attention by doing things for him. While it is good to be supportive, remember to only do it as an act of service, rather than expecting a return. This is what 1 Peter 4.9 (WEB) has to say: Be hospitable to one another without grumbling. As each has received a gift, even so serve one another, as good stewards of the grace of God in various ways. This must be done with an attitude of love. The goal of our service should be the same as Jesus had for us. Our goal should be the good of the other person, not a reward. We love because he first loved us. If anyone says, I love God, and hates his brother, he is a liar; for he who does not love his brother whom he has seen, cannot love God whom he has not seen. This commandment we have from him, that he who loves God should love his brother also.

Also, be mindful that Owen's preference to spend time with his friends over you, especially on Christmas Eve, might indicate a deeper issue in your relationship. It is important to remember to respect and honor one another, as 1 Peter 2.17 says: Honor all men. Love the brotherhood. Fear God. Honor the king. Additionally, Colossians 3.18-19 reminds us: Wives, submit yourselves to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. Husbands, love your wives, and do not be harsh with them. We encourage both of you to engage in open communication, understanding, and mutual respect, which are essential for any godly relationship. If he claims to be a believer, his first responsibility is to you, then to his friends. This is clear in 1 Peter 3.7: You husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, as with a weaker vessel, since she is a woman; and grant her honor as a fellow heir of the grace of life, so that your prayers will not be hindered.

Regarding your request for a stronger, more loving relationship, remember that God's will is for you to be in a relationship that honors and glorifies Him. If Owen is not prioritizing your relationship or spending time with you, it might be a sign that he is not ready for the commitment of courtship. 2 Corinthians 6.14 says: Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship do righteousness and lawlessness have together? Or what fellowship does light have with darkness? We strongly encourage you to seek God's will for your relationship and ensure that it aligns with biblical principles.

Lastly, the fact that you signed off in Jesus Name is excellent. Remember, It is only by the name of Jesus that we can approach God. As it says in Acts 4.12: Neither is there salvation in any other, for there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved! We pray that this encouragement helps you navigate your feelings and decisions during this Christmas season.

We pray for you Dyrwach and for Owen. Dear Lord, we bring Dyrwach and Owen before your throne today. We pray for their courtship and their lives as individuals. We ask that you would lead them to the relationship that you have planned for them. Give them strength to go through the struggles and hurts that come from their relationship together or apart. Convict them for their selfishness, but Lord, encourage them and give them the grace to pursue each other in love. Dear Lord, you are the reason for the season and we thank you for this Christmas season, for sending your Son to us, that we might have a way to you. Dear Lord, bring them closer to you, so that you can bring them closer together. In Jesus name, we pray.

 

[hostadmin]

Dear Dyrwach,

We're here for you, and we want you to know that you're not alone. We understand the pain and longing you're feeling, especially during this joyous season. We've been where you are, and we want to encourage you with some thoughts.

Firstly, it's beautiful to see your desire to reconcile and become a better person. God sees your heart, and He's proud of your efforts. Remember, He loves you just as you are, and He's walking this journey with you. As it's written in Psalm 34:18, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit."

It's okay to feel isolated and alone, but please don't forget that God is always with you. He's your constant companion, and He understands your struggles more than anyone else. In times like these, it's crucial to lean into Him, to pour out your heart to Him in prayer, and to spend time in His Word. As Jesus said in Matthew 11:28-29, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your soul."

Regarding your relationship with Owen, it's natural to want to spend more time together, especially during the holidays. However, it's important to remember that you can't force someone to love you or spend time with you. As we're told in 1 Corinthians 13:5, "Love is not self-seeking." Focus on being the best version of yourself, and trust that God will work in Owen's heart. If he truly loves you, he'll want to spend time with you and make you a priority.

Also, it's essential to communicate openly and honestly with Owen. Express your feelings, but do so in a way that's respectful and not accusatory. As Ephesians 4:15 tells us, "Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ."

Lastly, we want to remind you that God has a purpose and a plan for your life. Even in the midst of your pain, He's working things together for your good (Romans 8:28). Trust in Him, and keep taking steps forward, one day at a time.

We're praying for you, Dyrwach. We're asking God to comfort you, to heal your heart, and to guide you in your relationship with Owen. We're also praying that Owen's heart would be softened, and that he would seek to love and honor you as God desires. Most importantly, we're praying that both of your hearts would be drawn closer to Jesus, the source of all love and joy.

Stay strong, dear friend. You're not alone. God is with you, and so are we.

In Jesus' name, we pray.

 

[flora]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[PaliggenesiosThos]

We pray in the name of Christ that the family will spark again their love to bond together. While it is a positive that friends can be involved, yet we must disagree fairly that the Couple should have their moment together to determine their future. Please tenderize the heart that they can rebalance their lives so everyone can make the memories, the cost, and depth of heart to stay as United. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you up in prayer, dear sister, and we are honored that you have given us the privilege to intercede on your behalf. We are reminded of the power of agreement in prayer, as Jesus said, "For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them." Matthew 18:20.

As we approach Christmas, we pray that you feel the presence of Emmanuel, those promised that God is with us, bringing comfort and healing to your heart. We have been praying for a reconciliation between you and Owen, that his heart, and the hearts of his friends, would be softened and that God would bring unity and love between you both. We have also been praying that you would not feel alone or isolated, but that God's presence would be a tangible comfort. You close with in Jesus name, and we can all be assured all of these requests conform to the will of God.

If you have seen progress in your relationship with Owen, or if you have felt God's presence in a special way, we would love for you to share a praise report with us all. Your testimony could be a great encouragement to others who are also struggling with similar issues.

If your request does not seem to have been answered yet, please do not hesitate to post it again as a new request. We want to continue standing with you in prayer and belief. Sometimes, God's timing is different from ours, but we know that He hears our prayers and acts according to His perfect will.

May God bless you richly as you continue to seek Him and draw near to Him. We pray that you would experience the fullness of His love, joy, and peace this Christmas Day and always.