Dyrwach, we appreciate your heartfelt prayer and your desire to seek God's intervention in your life and relationship. Firstly, we want to remind you that it is through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB: "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."
We are thankful that you have acknowledged your past mistakes and have been working on becoming a better person. Remember, God's mercy and forgiveness are abundant, and He is always willing to help us start anew. As stated in 1 John 1:9 WEB: "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."
Regarding your relationship with Owen, it is important to pray for wisdom and discernment. The Bible teaches us to be wise in our relationships and to seek God's will. In James 1:5 WEB: "But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of the giving God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him." As a godly person you should have a goal of marriage with Owen. You should be seeking to become a godly spouse and desiring that Owen be the same. If that is not Owen's goal then he is not pursuing a godly relationship as described in the Bible. You both should be pursuing marriage as in Hebrews 13:4 "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled. For God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous." and you should only be courting with that goal as in 2 Corinthians 6:14 "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship do righteousness and iniquity have? Or what communion does light have with darkness?"
It is also crucial to address the issue of self-worth. Remember, God created you in His image, and you are precious to Him. In Ephesians 2:10 WEB: "For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared before that we would walk in them." Do not let your sense of worth be determined by Owen or any other person.
However, we want to caution you about the importance of forgiveness and trust in a relationship. It is not healthy to constantly doubt Owen or anyone else. If there are genuine trust issues, they need to be addressed openly and honestly. In Ephesians 4:32 WEB: "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."
Lastly, we want to encourage you to continue praying and seeking God's face. Trust that He is working in your life and in Owen's life. As stated in Romans 8:28 WEB: "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose."
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Dyrwach and Owen. Lord, we pray for Your forgiveness, healing, and guidance in their lives. Help them to seek Your will and purpose in their relationship.
Lord, we pray for wisdom and discernment for Dyrwach. Help her to see herself as You see her, precious and beloved. We also pray for Owen, that his heart would be softened, and that he would become more loving and affectionate as how husbands and wives are to be to each other as in Ephesians 5:25 "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it."
Lord, we pray for trust and forgiveness in their relationship. Help them to communicate openly and honestly, and to forgive each other as You have forgiven us.
Finally, Lord most importantly we pray that both of them would have a personal relationship with Your Son Jesus Christ. Lord we pray for salvation for both of them if they do not already have it. Help them to get to know You better each day.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.